Yeah I agree with Jenna ( hello lovely:) ), time is more precious to kids than anything. We never spend a fortune on the kids because it's not good for them to think stuff can just be obtained with no effort, but we do devote the whole day to them from 8.00 in the morning until they go to bed on their birthdays and do whatever tickles their fancy, bowling, paintballing, go hacking on the horses, swimming, skating, theme park... anything but just spend time with them.