I think this will be one for the girls!

[curly~sue]

Hello everybody!

I consider myself pretty clued up about sex, etc. but a friend of mine has me a bit confused. She slept with man a couple of days ago and we were gossiping about it, as you do. She said to me that she came but didn't orgasm.

I'm 23 and not usually dense, but is it only me that that doesn't make sense to?

Thank you.

[Champagne]

p.s. Whiffey, you only want to move onto poo because you've already exhausted your full knowledge of wimin's orgasms!!!!

[crete]

4get im really worried now we agree on a topic ill have to go and lie down now .

[sandrajo]

Yes, you can have the following -

- clitoral orgasm
- vaginal orgasm
- ejaculation (without orgasm or muscular spasms)
- ejaculation (with muscular spasms_
- but not all at once lol

I don't see what the problem is discussing sex with a friend, it is normal, it's not like your comparing notes or anything she was just saying she came but didnt orgasm what's the big deal ; )

[crete]

im sorry champagne i thought we were allowed to give our opinion ,

[curly~sue]

Well, actually, sandrajo, we WERE comparing notes, but that's besides the point :-)

[4getmenot]

I never said I dont like to partake I could answer this question its not me discussing my sex is it, but you answered the whole lot and more :-) I just dont with my mates that doesnt mean I have to go away does it :-( I said I'd get abuse for agreeing with crete :-)

[happygam]

I agree with curly....I have been with my partner for 12 years...it wouldn't bother me if he spoke about issues in our sex life, with his best pal - it is nice that you can talk about things with close friends - albeit having a laff about sex etc...or having a 'mature' conversation wanting opinions, advice...crimes..sex is everywhere, girlie mags, mens mags..t.v...so why not discuss intimate things with people....I for one shall carry on!!!

[curly~sue]

That was an attempt at humour, not a display of my immaturity! :-)

[4getmenot]

But at least I didnt call you all immature :-) I tried explaining my views in a nice way, didnt know I wasnt allowed to :-(

[redcrx]

crete, it really isnt your day cos Im now gonna disagree with 4get (you say we usually agree).
I have had conversations with my very best mate about sex and dont see anything immature about it. We dont go into too much of the detail but we do discuss it.

[sandrajo]

LOL curly~sue thought you might of been, it is a good question though as a few women didnt know the difference, so good for you : )

[4getmenot]

well that doesnt mean you disagree with me coz crete said that makes you immature not me! So there redcrx. (if I could do a rasberry I would) :-) and Sadrajo did you copy Champagnes answer or did you both go on the net :-)

[liquidspace]

It must have been a good question cos this one is running and running! I really didnt know there was a difference and I thought I knew a lot! I just wanna find out how I can experience all the other types!

[crete]

ok everyone lets forget the immature comment . to some people intimate relationships dont get discussed others do , is everyone happy now ? lol

[whiffey]

How can you have a discussion about sex without going into details, the white bits, the flocculation, the odours ?

That's a bit like cutting the lawn with the blades set too high.

[crete]

first cut of the season always have the blade at high, next time wahay

[4getmenot]

Is that the whiffey odour whiffey?

[jno]

Champagne's list is nearly complete, though she missed off the one with Brad Pitt and the platinum credit card. Nonetheless, coming and having an orgasm still mean the same thing in most versions of the English language. Presumably your friend had one sort but not another sort but didn't explain which. So I think you could have asked her for more details without sounding too innocent.

[whiffey]

Sex is a smelly moist business.

[4getmenot]

So if this question is one for the girls are you female today then whiffey?