Most embarrasing thing said to a member of the opposite sex?

[flip-flop]

....you know the type of thing - something that years down the line still makes you cringe with embarrassment.

I've got a terrible one - really really terrible, so much so I sought the poor girl out a few years back to apologise to her.

[Eve]

Oooh will have a think about that one.

An of mine who went through college and uni in a rather alcohol induced stupor confessed something though.

He was sitting with a friend when a girl came up and started chatting away. When she'd gone he remarked to a friend how friendly she seemed for a stranger and the friend pointed out he'd been seeing her for a week!!!

[divegirl]

Awwwww Come on flip-flop......you got to tell us what you did!!!

Lisa x

[whiffey]

Would you like to come into the bushes ?

[ummmm]

I was sending a text to a friend saying that a certain person was cr@p in bed....and sent it to that certain person....whoops

[serendipity1]

i replied to a text to my on/off lover how he was cruel and he knew i found him so sexy and hard to resist , only i sent it to my ex hubby, got out of it by saying it was a joke to a male friend , he believed me ! just!

[admarlow]

My friend (male) accidentally said ''I love c*ck'' during sex once!!!!

[flip-flop]

Later!

[OBonio]

What's that hair on your boob?

[PinkFizz]

Trying to nervously make conversation with, a new guy in a bar, I asked him if he agreed that the middle aged barmaid was the most miserable,stroppiest woman I had ever met.

To which he replied "That's my mother".

Erm.......

[China Doll]

Erm.... I once asked a guy if that was mobile in his pocket or was he just pleased to see me? Not really embarrassing but not very original either! ;0)

[Surreygirl30]

Not happened to me but imagine if someone asked you when it is due when you are not pregnant.

[spurslady]

I once said to my other half about what a horrible name Olive was after seeing popeye and olive, He answer was 'oh that was my Mums name' who had passed away, I didnt know and wanted the ground to open up and swallow me.

I hope he has forgotten it by now he said it didnt matter but I still feel bad 10 years later.

[Eve]

My exes dad used to call me by my exes exes name quite often.

I found it quite amusing and it never really bothered me but he would be mortified as would the rest of the family, many of those room goes silent moments lol.

[Eve]

Oh and at a wedding of a client I went to with two male work colleagues the bride introduced us to her new husband.

He greeted the two guys then turned to me and asked me which one I was with.

He got one hell of a dig in the ribs from his new wife who pointed out I was a lawyer too! :)

[samuel23]

Twice~ first time I was about 16 and on holiday and trying to impress a french girl with my command of her language. I told her 'vous avez vol� mon cur' instead of coeur (basicly you have stolen my a*rse instead of you have stolen my heart) oops
Second instance was about four years ago. I was in the bar at Uni discussing the charms of the prof who taught Biochemistry. She was fairly young for a uni lecturer and absolutely stunning. I was saying how hot she was and how I'd like to watch her playing tennis or see her in her bikini. Unkown to me, she was standing right behind me with my girlfiend, listening to every word. Ooops !!

[sunsocks]

Ashamed to say that I once said
"I really don't know why you bother"

I'll let you imagine the circumstances / context

[chicklin]

Go on flip-flop, I won't be able to sleep tonight if you don't come clean (oops! that could almost count, couldn't it !)

[flip-flop]

I was at a Summer party in the late 80s - I was about 16 at the time - and was getting very, ahem, friendly with a girl who went to the girls school next to my boys school.

As the evening wore on, and after much cider was drank, we decided to wander to the back of the host's huge garden, found a secluded piece of grass and lay down to gaze up at the stars.

Anyway, we started fumbling and one thing led to another and eventually we were both sans underwear and getting ready to hit the jackpot - however, as a result of the vast quantities of Woodpecker drank, I got stage fright!

No amount of 'coaxing' by my willing partner would work and eventually, I got up, put my clothes back on and said................this is really really really bad..............I said, I didn't fancy you anyway and weaved my way back to the party to stifled sobs behind me.

When I woke up the next morning I had one of those 'oh no' moments, but being a cocky 16 year old shrugged it off and carried on as normal.

I occasionally saw this girl again from afar, but she always made sure we didn't pass each other, and then about six months after the party my family moved to another area.

Anyway, over the years as I matured I started to feel guiltier and guilitier for what I said to this poor girl so about six or so years ago I sought her out to apologise - she was, understandably a bit frosty at first, if nothing else because she may have thought I was a stalker, but eventually she loosened up and we had a bit of a romance for six months.

I'm glad to say we are now firm friends and last year I was an usher at her wedding.

[Eve]

Awww FlipFlop, it's great you were man enough to seek her out and apologise and that's lovely about you being friends now and being her usher...awww :)