stupid s**g of a girlfriend

[Daave]

im gonna leave her on xmas day,
im gonna pretend that everyhting is ok, then leave her just after i cook xmas dinner for her and a few of her mates..

its gonna take a lot of planning but its gonna be worth it to hear the sniveling b***h crying down the phone and remembering the feeling of rejection for the rest of her life on what should be a happy day of the year



everyone in favor say aye!

[4getmenot]

Daaave as far as I can remember you�re usually a nice chap, if she has hurt you then just kick her out, revenge is great to think about but in the end it just makes you bitter and twisted. She will get what she deserves without you having to be nasty. This may just make you look like the bad one in the end, you know what us women are like at playing the victim :-)

[Pippa68]

Revenge is definately a dish best served cold. Do it on new years eve, if you have to be such a meanie.

[Goodsoulette]

If you do it on christmas day, you will only ruin your xmas too. You might enjoy your revenge for a tiny while but then you will start feeling bitter about it and then that will get followed by feelings of hurt. it would be much better to do it as soon as you can, she will still be down for xmas and hopefully you will just be relieved and having fun somewhere else.

[Goodsoulette]

Also do you really want every xmas for the rest of your life to remind you of your ex-stupid s**g of a girlfriend?

[tradey]

god people can be so cruel,why not just tell her face to face i wouldnt go through with it if i was you it may back fire on you

[Pippa68]

What exactly has this girl done? if it has been prolonged, then more fool you ~ I would get in quick just in case she has similar plans..women often sense these things y'know.

[ummmm]

Are you really Daave? Or is it the pop talking?

Hope you're ok mate xx

[Daave]

sorry, i went straight offline last night and didnt get chance to reply

she cheated on me with a guy from her work, and she is just a complete **** all the time,

she cheated on me then told me she wanted me to leave, so i made plans to go and she panic'ed,

i still love her, but i dont think in in love with her anymore,

dont get me wrong, i have my faults too, but she is just so good at making me feel like s**t so i thought id put a bit of imagination into this,

im supposed to be cooking 3 course dinner for 6, im going to cook the starter, eat that, then serve the main course, then excuse myself (to the toilet or something) then just leave,

she wont notice for a minute or two, then she'll be angry, then when she realises im not coming back, she'll be as upset as i can possibly imagine...

i really want to hurt her, the amount of poop she's put me through emotionally recently,


and infact, i think ill enjoy it so much that ill remember it as a good day! it'll be awesome.... just like that wedding on eastenders (which didnt quite go to plan) but im not too bothered cause ill be out of here...

[redcrx]

surely that will make you as bad, if not worse, than she was when she did similar to you a few months back. I hadnt realised that youd managed to sort it out, last i heard you were being slung out that night. Can you remember how bad you felt that day?
I can understand your need to be as cruel to her but in the long run bitterness will eat you up.
By all means get rid of her if its not working out now but dont ruin your christmas just to get at her.

[suffragette]

I would suggest you end your relationship immediately and not play the game of spite. Such actions have a habit of backfiring. For example, how would you cope if she and her friends retaliated by falsely accusing you of some kind of assault on Christmas Day and got you arrested. Could you ever enjoy Christmas again with that kind of memory? Take care and just end the relationship in a manly and honourable manner. In the long run, you will feel the better for it, I believe.

[Daave]

assult?
naa, she wouldnt do that, she'd just cry and get drunk,then go and have sex with the bloke she's been cheating on me with!

[Daave]

ill be a lot happier on christmas day, knowing im doing something constructively destructive, rather than sitting in an empty room in my new flat...

ive just rung up and arranged a viewing this weekend,

600 to move in including a months rent.... not too bad huh?

[ummmm]

Revenge is sweet as they say....They don't say that for no reason

[Goodsoulette]

I agree with suffragette daave. If you do go through with this slightly wicked plan lol never ever tell future love interests. They will not be impressed.

[ummmm]

I don't think any future girlfriends would care!!!! she's cheated on him for gods sake. What does she expect. Him to sit around crying, forgive her and let it go. She shouldn't have cheated in the first place. In my opinion leaving on Xmas day is not as bad as being cheated on!!!

[Pippa68]

Oh yes ~ I remember now, Daave..sorry!

If you really feel this will give you proper closure, then great ~ she doesn't sound like the most wonderful woman in the world (to put it mildly).

I hope it makes you feel better doing it this way, and I understand why.

As Goodsoulette & suffragette have said..never speak of this again!

[4getmenot]

yes you are hurt but this just makes you as much of a nasty person as she is

[4getmenot]

It also gives you the satisfaction of letting her know she�s hurt you and just how much. Surely its best just to let her go quietly, you do all this on xmas day she�s gonna know just how much she�s hurt you and how much you must still care to be doing all this.

[4getmenot]

And she will be telling all her mates that you were the one that couldn�t face it was over and that you even took her back after she slept with someone else. She gets a kick out of hurting you and she�ll enjoy the xmas surprise too as I bet she thrives of a bit of drama

[Daave]

i dunno, im kinda hoping that she kill herself over me.. but that's a bit far fetched...

she hurt me, i wanna hur her..

this will get rid of her forever, she'll never talk to me again, and if afterwards i feel its a mistake, i wont embarress myself by trying to get her back, and in a few years it'll be a great conversation starter with my mates!

hey dave, do you remember that time when ................



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