What would you do if your lover was pregnant?

[jelly-baby]

Obviously this is directed at married men!

[jelly-baby]

and this is a hypothetical question before anyone gets on their high horse and starts throwing morals everywhere!

[LazyGun]

have to be really careful throwing morals about... they leave a horrible stain on the wallpaper and are really difficult to remove.

Plus which, you can have someones eye out with em.

[ummmm1]

This is a hard one. Most married men, and I say most not all, are not looking for another family. If a lover becomes pregnant I would say that it generally ruins the fun.

Depends what both parties want from it....it could also be his excuse to leave his wife.

[ummmm1]

Sorry jelly-baby

I'm not a man and i'm not married

[Goodsoulette]

This happened to a friend of mine. She got pregnant through a man who was living with a woman. She didnt want the baby but she wanted over with as quickly as possible. She felt he a right to know, so she wanted to tell him and thought that maybe he would contribute some to the private aboetion she was going to have.

He claimed he had had a vesectomy and that itn couldnt be his, she knew for certain it was. he ended up threatening to keep and she would go after him for child support just so that he would admit it was his.

Needless to say, she didntn want anything to do with him anymore for being a lying scumbag anyway.

[ummmm1]

Do you think you are pregnant jelly baby?

[RATTER15]

I would be really shocked!!!! and so would my lover, Ive had a vasectomy and she has had a hysterectomy!!

I wouldn't tell the wife as I will be divorced from her in a few weeks hooray!!

[andy-hughes]

I never say never, because anyone, and I mean anyone, can have an affair if the circumstances are right (or in fact wrong ....!)

My lover would not be pregnant because I would ensure proper contraception. I know no contraception is foolproof, but if I was close enough to a woman to be intimate with her, I would have to leave my wife.

I think that looks really po-faced and sanctimonious in print, it's really not intended, just an honest answer.

[ummmm1]

A good answer andy