Following on from my previous post....

[jelly-baby]

This is just an update to those who gave me advice on my prevoius post.....

I have decided that it is best all round (for myself and the guy in question) if i dont carry on with what we discussed.

You'll know what i mean if you replied to me before, dont really want to put it in writing coz dont want loads of moralistic people having a go.

Sorry if this seems a bit cryptic but certain people on here will know what i mean.

Thanks to everyone for their advice :-)

[ummmm]

Good Luck to you and I hope everything goes ok x

[raysparx1]

jelly-baby, wish you good luck,just make sure you do what you want to do,and be happy, Ray xx

[MrBen5]

Hmmm, i better not say what i am thinking...

[jelly-baby]

Thanks ummmm and ray :-)

MrBen, you can say what you think if you like, though i can guess anyway.

Everyone is entitled to their own opinions. I am fully aware there will be lots of people on here that dont think it is right and all i can say is that it is right for me at this point in time.

[MrBen5]

Hey, if its whats right for you, thats all that matters isnt it. As long as your doing it for the right reasons and not just cos he doesnt want you to have it...

[jelly-baby]

It is definitely my choice, i wouldnt do it if it was just for him.

Have no idea what is going to happen with me and him, i imagine it will come to an end as it would be a good time for me to move on. Who knows. I'll get this out the way and make some decisions.

and thanks caz, you did not put your foot in it at all :-)

[unruliejulie]

Good luck with your choices jelly baby. Only you know what is the right thing for you to do adn i admire you for amking a very difficult decision. I wish you well and may you have a great future, time to move on indeed. Best wishes JulesX

[unruliejulie]

oops, sorry for the bad spelling, too many sherries! lol