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Genetically I come from a ragingly intolerant family, very hard line Republicans, so I don't honestly know. but you're right that I don't have a stroke if the grass gets a bit long, or if the kids put sweet wrappers in the ashtray because I try very hard now to view eacvh and every little occurance within the grand scheme of things. If you do that such trivia scarcely matters. In other words if it's not life or death or about to cause harm to other people then don't let it affect you. On the other hand I move like greased lightening if it looks likely, so I'm not complacent, I just hope I now have a good sense of perspective.