Why did my ex-girlfriend send me a picture of her pregnancy?

[Patrick19]

My girlfriend sent me a picture of her pregnancy test. Many times she intimately told me she wanted a baby. We had many problems, such as me being slightly forceful and a bit angry over minor things such as she doing coke. She laughed at me everytime she said she did Cocaine and/or that she did something to hurt me. So I told her that she wasn't special only to see her reaction. We slept well that night. The next day she tells me she doesn't want to see me again because of what I said. Even during problems in the relationship she alays came to me, because I was there for her. In relation to her wanting a baby with me and the picture of her pregnancy test she sent me, it makes me believe she wanted the baby, even though now she wants to terminate it. Her personality has completely changed towards me and now she doesnt ever want to see me again. We had unprotected sex numerous times and she fell pregnant. Even from the start she hinted about wanting a baby. I loved her very much and now I have to settle back down because I care for her to let her go. I always said I would be there as a father for our child. She sent me the picture and I stare at it in confusion. Everything she says about me and the baby is unpleasing. Maybe she's being defensive or that she is projecting some kind of reasoning ground about the situation. Her mind has changed and she doesn't want the baby now. The memories of our relationship is hurting and I care enough to let her go.

[Pippa68]

*speak*

Unless I got it right the first time ;o)

[notfrom-oz]

mom put me on decaf..seems to be working ive been alowed on for 3days in a row now!!!

[ummmm]

Don't speak to soon.......

Decaf.....yuk

[notfrom-oz]

i agree ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

[Pippa68]

'It's boring listening to the same people talk about the same crap '

I so agree...

[ummmm]

Patrick.......You have hurt me deeply

[boro1986]

Patrick you couldnt have Ummmm ive seen her and believe me she is well out of your league even if you were a normal human being x LOL to Ummm

[whiskeysheri]

If only you would heed your own advice.

Why do you continue to post about the same subject, then?!

[nic2006]

Patrick I have a simple piece of advice for you....drop dead. Sooner rather than later. Its better for you.

[redcrx]

ummm, have a choccy biscuit to help rid you of the feeling of disappointment :)

[ummmm]

And I'm having boro's baby now.....so there

[boro1986]

Patrick im still waiting for my petrol bomb through my window. Cause i wanna see if my punch is harder than yours, Ive not tested mine out on a woman tho

[ummmm]

It's ok Red.....I'm over it now

Thanks for your concern :-)

[Miss Inquiry]

Patrick have you ever considered getting some profesional help for all your problems, you seem to have an awful lot of problems and I don't think regular AB'ers have the experience to help you. Your just getting angrier and more troubled.

I think a professional help might be the best for you.

[nic2006]

or just go and jump off a cliff. People like you take up valuable oxygen. You are beyond help.

[Pippa68]

I tried advisingthat one, Miss Inquiry.

It's like playing tennis against the curtains.

[whiskeysheri]

...and I still haven't heard from your dad! :o(

[Pippa68]

I bet my dad is harder than his..

[ummmm]

My Dads the hardest