Why did my ex-girlfriend send me a picture of her pregnancy?

[Patrick19]

My girlfriend sent me a picture of her pregnancy test. Many times she intimately told me she wanted a baby. We had many problems, such as me being slightly forceful and a bit angry over minor things such as she doing coke. She laughed at me everytime she said she did Cocaine and/or that she did something to hurt me. So I told her that she wasn't special only to see her reaction. We slept well that night. The next day she tells me she doesn't want to see me again because of what I said. Even during problems in the relationship she alays came to me, because I was there for her. In relation to her wanting a baby with me and the picture of her pregnancy test she sent me, it makes me believe she wanted the baby, even though now she wants to terminate it. Her personality has completely changed towards me and now she doesnt ever want to see me again. We had unprotected sex numerous times and she fell pregnant. Even from the start she hinted about wanting a baby. I loved her very much and now I have to settle back down because I care for her to let her go. I always said I would be there as a father for our child. She sent me the picture and I stare at it in confusion. Everything she says about me and the baby is unpleasing. Maybe she's being defensive or that she is projecting some kind of reasoning ground about the situation. Her mind has changed and she doesn't want the baby now. The memories of our relationship is hurting and I care enough to let her go.

[joko]

do fack orf, old bean, there's a good chap...

[redcrx]

then let her go and stop going on about it.
perhaps this may help others understand the history a bit more before posting a reply http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Body-and-Soul/Q uestion354131.html

[raysparx1]

Thanks red, I was just going to answer and also tell joko to behave, I will skip this one,thanks again, I would have felt a right winkle.

[redcrx]

its a long thread ray but last 2 pages throw up some interesting posts.

[raysparx1]

Thanks again red, have just had a look at end two, say no more, take care red. xx

[ummmm]

Just to add....if you check out reds link go straight to the last 4 pages where you will be able to see what an evil fcukwit patrick really is.....

[ummmm]

snap

[raysparx1]

A first class twonk !!!

[ummmm]

That's the word I was looking for Ray

[Pippa68]

Is that worse than feeling a left winkle, ray? xx

[raysparx1]

lol, thanks pip, I asked for that one.

[Pippa68]

It's nice to start the day with a laugh ~ especially on a feeble thread such as this.

[whiskeysheri]

FFS! Do you actually speak like this in real life?

Why is it so hard to get your head around? She doesn't want you. Leave it now.

[ummmm]

Shall we talk about food?

[raysparx1]

Egg & Bacon Bap, oh and a mug of tea, no sugar thank you.

[ummmm]

Just a coffee for me.....2 sugars lot's of milk

[Pippa68]

I know WS...is it English? what the heck is 'intimately told me'?

Toast & Tiptree strawerry conserve. Yum.

[raysparx1]

pip, intimately told me means, she whispered it to his willy. !!

[whiskeysheri]

The term, 'trying too hard', springs to mind, Pippa! :o)

I'll have a full English, please...

[ummmm]

lol Ray ;-)

I didn't read it all......it's boring