Why did my ex-girlfriend send me a picture of her pregnancy?

[Patrick19]

My girlfriend sent me a picture of her pregnancy test. Many times she intimately told me she wanted a baby. We had many problems, such as me being slightly forceful and a bit angry over minor things such as she doing coke. She laughed at me everytime she said she did Cocaine and/or that she did something to hurt me. So I told her that she wasn't special only to see her reaction. We slept well that night. The next day she tells me she doesn't want to see me again because of what I said. Even during problems in the relationship she alays came to me, because I was there for her. In relation to her wanting a baby with me and the picture of her pregnancy test she sent me, it makes me believe she wanted the baby, even though now she wants to terminate it. Her personality has completely changed towards me and now she doesnt ever want to see me again. We had unprotected sex numerous times and she fell pregnant. Even from the start she hinted about wanting a baby. I loved her very much and now I have to settle back down because I care for her to let her go. I always said I would be there as a father for our child. She sent me the picture and I stare at it in confusion. Everything she says about me and the baby is unpleasing. Maybe she's being defensive or that she is projecting some kind of reasoning ground about the situation. Her mind has changed and she doesn't want the baby now. The memories of our relationship is hurting and I care enough to let her go.

[Pippa68]

Have I ever actually attacked whiffey..I mean properly attacked whiffey? I don't particularly like your penchant for 'sticking with the underdog no matter what the hell they say' but it's your perogative, whiff :o)

Patrick, we are all dying. As I said before, be so very careful what you wish on people.

Not at all bothered about what Patrick types..after all, 3 threads all based on the same crap (his ex, their aborted baby..blah blah blah) is all we can expect from him. I much prefer to be insulted by someone more articulate ~ whiffey for one.

Patricks recent replies show such juvenility ~ and not even the 'funny ha ha' kind..more the 'funny peculiar' kind. Oh well, I am sure he will enjoy his new career in the nick.

[whiffey]

Pippa, oh but had you been more forthcoming in earlier days :( When loads of vile abuse went uncommented upon.

Now you get agitated when a lively and articulate mind challenges the clique.

If I stick up for the underdog then that is my soul and my business. I never expect anybody to agree.

(When it comes to wishing cancer on people, I would at least expect consistency)

[Pippa68]

Aha..you see I have already told everyone here (including the 'clique' which doesn't actually exist) that wishing cancer on myself or anybody means nothing to me at all...not here on AB.

This started way before minters posts to you ~ you backed up the Russian despite her evil rantings, and expected people to back you up. It's playground stuff. As I have also said, I don't expect anyone to stick up for me..and I stick up for nobody as I expect them to be perfectly capable of looking after themselves. It's only an internet forum after all.

So as you can see, I am indeed consistent. The death threats/bombings/cancer/AIDS rubbish mean nothing...

It seems to me that it's ok for you to demand the backing you feel you deserve, whiffey ~ yet this troll (accused of rape & harrassment) is to be well liked and has '$punk'. Well done..your inconsistency shows 100%, whiff.

But I still love you, you know.

[whiffey]

I never actually found any of Russians posts to be 'evil'. Scampish at worst.

Who came to my aid when I was in trouble ?

[Pippa68]

You didn't ever see her posts to milly about abortion? that was one of many, and to be honest quite a few were removed pretty darned smartish.

An I never reported any. I prefer to let the posts lie, so people can see them for what they are, or however they may be perceived.

I do recall telling Minter that the 'paedo' posts were uncalled for. He replied that 'I didn't know the real you' which is of course true.

I don't know anyone on here. Patrick doesn't know me, you don't know me. For all he knows I could have AIDS or cancer anyway..and for all you know I could be a paedo (another one of Patricks 'insults').

Oh well, tomorrow is another day. Hopefully Amanda is well rid of him and his psycho babble :o)

[Patrick19]

Whiffey = pure intelligence. I am lost for words. Whiffey has said what was needed to be said.

[Pippa68]

Whiffey and I haven't seen eye-to-eye on many subjects.

However that doesn't mean I don't admire his intelligence, wit & decorum. I have never yet read an offensive post submitted by whiffey.

Patrick must read Whiffeys threads and learn a thing or two. That is if Patrick would care to venture beyond his own drivel ;o)

[Patrick19]

Heh. Nah, think of it like this my dear. If Whiffey backs me up, it must surely be for rational purposes only. Aside from your incoherent babbling; which you're spurting more of right now, I think Whiffey has every right to take any side. I never asked for more than myself to deal with the situation, so another one bites the dust .

[ummmm]

You think Whiffey is taking your side?

Whiffey is amusing himself.......

[whiskeysheri]

"I never asked for anyone more than myself to deal with the situation."

Why would you post on AB about it then, Patrick? Oh, that's also grammatically incorrect, Mr. Intelligence.

Surely you're able to fight your own battles with an IQ as high as yours is (supposedly)?

[Pippa68]

I am not incoherent ~ surely if I were then you wouldn't be able to answer me?

Besides which, my last post wasn't for you :o)

You were obviously desperate for an answer, which is why you posted your *Q* on AB..pretty sad you don't have anyone else to talk to, I reckon. You got your answers, and I reiterate the fact that Whiffey has only come on here to support an underdog...nay, in fact he has come on here to moan about not being supported himself.

Those facts are in his replies.

[Patrick19]

Nah, grammatically incorrect is you, continuously going on about grammar you boring fart. Your bum chums are past that sh*te and still you go on about it. Who gives a fuq? I'd rather watch paint dry.

[whiskeysheri]

I'm only pointing out the obvious, Patrick, that you're not as intelligent as you think you are.

I go on? I'm sorry, exactly how many 'questions' have you posted in regards to your girlfriend not wanting you anymore?

[Patrick19]

Which is it? Ummmm or Pippa? Soon there will be a conspiracy of the AB hall of losers. Heh, whiskeysherri moans about my grammar because it's either giving her a decent enough reason to spurt sh*te or she gets off on orgasms from my big enough words, er, c0q. And this other clown, Pippa the alpha-female of the gang (sorry Ummmm), is delirious. Whiffey and me will poke you in the eyes with our jousts. Stand down inferior AB headcases *** bores. zzzzz

[whiskeysheri]

I wasn't aware it was a competition!

I'm tired of telling you now.
http://www.google.co.uk/search?hl=en&q=anger+m anagement&btnG=Search&meta=cr%3DcountryUK%7Cco untryGB

[ummmm]

Why are you apologising to me?

[whiffey]

Oi Patrick lol !!! I'll speak for myself thanks. The only way I annoy people is by dropping MasterChef quotes

"Guinea Fowl does not sit on a risotto happily"

However, I have refrained from pointing out the ghastly grammatical error in your last post :)

Buck up lad !

[Pippa68]

Goon me, Whiffey...please?

[Pippa68]

Where is my last reply mentioning grammar?

I think you just love mentioning my name..after all, it is very upper class :o)

[whiffey]

Seagoon: "Watch it lad or I'll fetch you one !"

Bluebottle: "It's alright I can fetch it myself"