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boyfriend and holiday
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would you let your boyfriend go to aya napa (bad spelling) we live together and have done so for 2 years now hes wanting to go with all his mates theres about 15 of them some single some not and some who arnt that both about there girlfriends, what do you think? i trust him and i know 99% hel never cheat on me but the thought of all the girls in bikinis around! its gonna drive me crazy if he goes i think!
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Start referring to his holiday as 'that week when your not around'.
Load it with little comments like 'so you definitely wont be back before the Saturday'....(it often helps if you are texting or on the computer, when throwing little remarks).
Of course you trust him, it's all those hussies in Aya you dont trust.
Make him wonder if it's wise to leave you alone for a week!!
Load it with little comments like 'so you definitely wont be back before the Saturday'....(it often helps if you are texting or on the computer, when throwing little remarks).
Of course you trust him, it's all those hussies in Aya you dont trust.
Make him wonder if it's wise to leave you alone for a week!!
Love isn't about ownership and control. It's about honesty, trust and respect for one another. You've been living together for 2 years and the relationship is going well, so I assume you're very committed to each other. You're no longer a couple of hormonal teenagers - you're two adults who need to deal with adult issues.
Jealousy and mistrust is *never* a good thing. Also, the concept of whether you 'allow' him to go is very dangerous territory. He's not your possession or your child. He's a grown man.
Don't react out of fear of the unknown. Have you sat down and explained your concerns? Don't be accusing, just share your thoughts and feelings and remind him that what you have together is so precious and isn't worth being lost over a holiday fling. He'll no doubt be adamant that he would never do such a thing, but should he find himself in a difficult situation, he'll remember your words which will reinforce his already deep commitment to you.
Don't let your mind make a mountain out of a mole hill. It will drive you crazy if you let it, so make sure that you're keeping yourself busy whilst he's away. Pour some of your excess energy into your hobbies, interests or even find new ones. Use the time constructively and then, when he gets back, you'll both have lots to tell each other plus the bonus of some wonderful 'back together' passion.
Jealousy and mistrust is *never* a good thing. Also, the concept of whether you 'allow' him to go is very dangerous territory. He's not your possession or your child. He's a grown man.
Don't react out of fear of the unknown. Have you sat down and explained your concerns? Don't be accusing, just share your thoughts and feelings and remind him that what you have together is so precious and isn't worth being lost over a holiday fling. He'll no doubt be adamant that he would never do such a thing, but should he find himself in a difficult situation, he'll remember your words which will reinforce his already deep commitment to you.
Don't let your mind make a mountain out of a mole hill. It will drive you crazy if you let it, so make sure that you're keeping yourself busy whilst he's away. Pour some of your excess energy into your hobbies, interests or even find new ones. Use the time constructively and then, when he gets back, you'll both have lots to tell each other plus the bonus of some wonderful 'back together' passion.
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