pregnant at 17!

[pregnant-s]

im 17 and 8 weeks pregnant.
i want to keep it but i have doubts now and then about having a abortion because the babys father isnt around and i dont have a job or anything but i do have a really surportive family.but they just say its your choice,which is the only thing they can say really has anyone else had trouble trying to decide this? and what did you do?

[whiffey]

pregnant-s, I have much sympathy with some of the views given here, but massive antipathy towards the cruel and crass way some of it has been offered.

You are very very young, a child will dominate and take over your life, and the you that wants to go out in the evenings and have fun will have to do it a great deal less.

Best wishes to you, whatever you decide.

[johnlambert]

Pregnant, for your info, I have a degree in History, dont take any notice of joe_the_buffoon he is a compulsive liar, and if he can see a weakness in you, he will attack in the most obscene way, if he cannot see a weakness, he will invent one. Be warned he is a nasty piece of work,

[ummmm]

Boys Boys Boys.....!!!!

[-Z-]

On a sensible front Pregnat-s...you will probably love the child forever...but you will be burdened...do a list of pros an cons...then decide. Your social life will be destroyed.....whereas all your friends will be out enjoying themselves....a child is for life NOT just for xmas

[pregnant-s]

yea i realise that john.to be honest the first post he sent he judged me then told me to have a abortion i didnt sign up to this site to get abuse or get told what to do i just wanted to see what other people in my sitituation did.he sounds like sum1 who DOES NOT have a job himself..otherwise how could he be sitting on AB all day being horrible to 17 year olds.yea i understand he's views but there cud of been a much nicer way to say it and not to judge me.

[efc]

-Z- visit the travel topic and answer my question please - just remembered you're a toon!!

[pregnant-s]

i dont really go out a lot at night.properlly only once a month.lol sad eh just not my thing rather spend time with my family.so not going out as much wouldnt really be a proplem but i understand where your coming from -z- thanks x

[pregnant-s]

Yes I will attack you by telling you I am going to knock your teeth out and because I am so obsessed with you I have tracked you down to within ten yards of your home address.

Be scared preggers, be very scared. I am not a stable person.



was that threat to me?
how dare u threaten me