Im would go back to friday 29th November 1985 at 8.50am, that was the very last time i ever saw my Dad. I had so many things to say to him that i never got the chance to so thats the one day i'd change. I wouldnt have got out of the car to go in work if i had known then what i knew a few hours later.
I'm happy enough with my life - loving wife & daughter, good job, my own home, pretty good health.
Although I've had bad days, and days where the most cringeworthy events took place, if any of them changed I probably wouldn't be where I am today, so I wouldn't change a thing....!
If I could change just one day *sob story to follow* I cant say I would have never met my ex cause what doesnt kill us only makes us stronger, but I would have had him arrested the day he broke my arm instead of putting up with another 4 years of abuse. I rue the day I covered his back.
Not sure of the exact date but it was a Saturday in September 1995.
Playing last football match before signing up for the RAF. I played in goal and was one-one with a striker and I came off worse, spending the next 6 weeks being unable to walk properly, let alone run.
In the meantime I started a job in IT and have been doing it ever since, only just now going for the RAF again.
I would have told myself to either let the lad score or not play in the first place.
Aww unruliejulie, my heart goes out to you,i would go back to Feb 20 1985, same with my dad, even though he had had a stroke and did not know me, would have told him i loved him and gave him thanks for all his love and care in bringing me up
Thank you so much! Mine to you too. Thats the hardest thing and always will be druiaghtagh, i was 16 and at that age i dont think you generally let your parents know how much you love them and need them. Thats what i wanted to do, more than anything inthe whole world but never got the chance.He dropped me off at work and by midday he was dead from a massive heart attack. I like to think he knew that i was his little dolly bird (thats what he called me) who loved him so much though
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i think it's very hard for me anyway,to change a specific day in my life.There are plenty i would love to change from losing parents to pets ,disappointment but since these things happen to you in your journey through life you learn to appreciate what you have round about you and how precious these things are.It makes our occupations seem trivial ,albeit we have to be responsible, life is good