Txting

[4getmenot]

Have you ever wanted to text someone so bad but know its wrong to

[wiggal]

Yup! And i did text him, and thats to that text, we have been together 3 years!

[Roughquest]

Oh yes, most definitely and I hate having to hold off if I have not had a reply for hours....I have just texted him again...ooops...I will get labelled 'clingy' lol...dont care...what is wrong in letting someone know you are thinking of them?

[Booldawg]

double-txing, first rule of fledgling relationships; don't do it!

[wiggal]

I wasnt double txting! we were both single, ok, well he was seeing some one but wasnt that fussed!
I just txt him saying he was the most gorgeous person i had ever seen (cringes!)
He replied saying i wasnt too bad my self, (men for ya!!)
And that was that!

[4getmenot]

Well I haven�t spoken to my �bloke� since valentines because he was a bstard (see valentines section) and he hasn�t text or anything. I think maybe this is a good thing as we really aren�t going anywhere and needed an excuse to break free from being stuck in the same old rut, but why do I feel the need to text him when I shouldnt. There is someone else that really likes me but I'm scared, probably because I'm worried I will end up txting the ex and hurt him

[wiggal]

*runs off to read the valentine section!*

Be back soon!

[Roughquest]

Ha, ha, have just had a reply from him saying "Have I been drinking?" lol....

[Sasha13]

You want to text him again for the short term security that a reply from him would bring. Trouble is, that's all it is. Short term security. Resist the tempatation.

[havinmysay]

why do u want to text him now when he hasn't contacted u since wed if your not bothered just leave it

[Haggisdj]

..yeah, and for that reason I won't put her number in my phone. I know what I'm like sometimes when I'm wandering home from the pub with Guinness inside me...

[Goodsoulette]

my wrong texting normally happens around the weekend in the small hours.

[Goodsoulette]

also with you texting this guy, he is holding all the cards. Dont do it, if he texts you leave it a bit before you text back.

[redcrx]

delete his number and avoid temptation! xx

[4getmenot]

yer thats just it why do I want to so much, I think sasha is spot on, and the fact I do miss him, its just I had a go that was it, think I know its for the best and maybe he knows that too.

[4getmenot]

and redcrx I know his number off by heart so thats no good

[redcrx]

he was in the wrong really, he made no effort at all for you so maybe is for the best.

[wigglebum]

Can you see any future with person? If you can't then you know in your heart what to do.

Its hard not wanting to txt but for your sake I would just let it go. You need to move on even if it seems a hard thing to do xx

[4getmenot]

Sometimes I think I go back to him because I don�t think I deserve any better and I cant stand too much attention from someone, he didn�t do much for me but when I had any surprises that�s what made them special, whereas the other boy that wants me would give me the world, I just want an in-between.