feel gutted

[Trinny]

I posted on AB about my boyfriend, calling time on our relationship, as he decided he wants to be a free spirt! He rang me last week, and during conversation he let me know that he has registered himself on to on-line dating! And has been out with someone. He told me they kissed. But he kept thinking about me, so he wouldnt see her again.

What I cant absorb is (1) how can he move on so quick? (2) why tell me? When he knew that I still love him?

[Trinny]

I am a bit older than you Curly lol, not much though. I am new to this site, so dont know anyone on here. But on the post I have bored everyone with, I have had really nice replies.

You have been especially helpful to me. So a big THANKYOU to you.

[curlyfilm]

no problem, the body and soul section, is not what it was, a few weeks of arguing by a few petty members has seen it split, and most of the old regulars now use a different site, not as serious but more fun
it does not matter, how old you are, you still make the same silly mistakes........i know

if you ever want, any advise, just search and you'll probably find me e-mail address, in this section, if not say here and i'll post it, and delete it later, i've been zapped loads of time here due to some cheekiness, that some prudes dont like, so have a few curlyfilm variations....if you know what i mean..lol
i would say good luck, but believe you dont need it.....

[Trinny]

Thanks Curly, I will hopefully see you again here. Thank you for giving me the male perspective on things. I know inside that I deserve to be treated better x

[coco2]

I dont want to be nasty but he is playing games with you. you deserve so much better than someone who has no respect for you and your feelings. get out there and have some fun with your friends!! he wants you kept on a piece of string to massage his ego. I know you are most likely feeling very down but try not to let him see that. He is a git and in time you may realise that he is not worth the energy of getting upset over anymore.

[sam37]

hi can i give you a little tip if in doubt do nothing, act like
youre not bothered, if he rings tell him youre on your way
out and dont tell him where, make like you have no time for
him at all, and instead of you wondering about him he will
be wondering about you, trust me it works unless of course he reads this lol, good luck.

sammy x

[Trinny]

Thanks coco and sam. He never really made much of a effort. As far as I am concerned now, he can rot. Like you said coco, he wants me to hang around. Well I wont. Sam, I will just ignore him completely if I get a text (or his favourite) email! He doesnt even have the backbone to get on the phone.

A big THANKYOU to everyone who helped me on this one