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[4getmenot]

Well some of you know that I've just started seeing someone and well Saturday morning he told me he loved me. And all I could say was don't be silly, felt a bit bad because he was just showing his feelings. I have to be sure about how I feel before I say it back, so how many of you have said it just because the other person did?

[redcrx]

if you are unsure of your feelings then youre right not to have said it. Bit unfair to call him silly though perhaps, but i can see why you did and im sure ive done same before.

[unruliejulie]

hi 4get, i wouldnt dream of saying it back for the sake of it. Thats how you get yourself in a pickle. I have been out with a couple of blokes that said "i love you" after a fortnight! I reacted in much the same way as you. It freaked me out though and i promptly dumped them. It was just too fast for my liking and having come out of a marriage i didnt want that!

[laurence2]

I knew the 1st time i set eyes on my wife that i wanted to be with her for the rest of my life, she felt the same as well, it hasen't really answered your question tho, i just thought i would mention it as it was love at first site, i never felt this way in previous relationships and did'nt believe that you could instantly love someone, 18 years later and i have the same feelings as the first day i met her

Please feel free to throw up now!!

[redcrx]

bleurgh!"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[4getmenot]

It hasn�t freaked me out because he has liked me for years but I was with someone, so its probably right he feels that way as he�s finally won me over. But I just don�t know, I cant say I shouldn�t be with him because I do care for him a lot, I guess if he left me I would be so upset and know I love him but until I feel right I�m not going to. I didn�t say don�t be silly in a nasty way more a why would you love me. I said we don�t know each other well enough and he said well from what I�ve seen I love every bit of you.

[4getmenot]

and I've never been told that before. guess its a shock too.

[4getmenot]

really? do you love her?

[redcrx]

dont you tell mum hes seen every bit of you!!!!

[4getmenot]

Te Hee :-) Guess when I say it I want him to be really happy and not just coz he said it to me.

[laurence2]

i don't believe for one moment that you {cleversod] haven't told your wife you love her

[4getmenot]

I agree with that. but you could tell her you love her.

[laurence2]

cleversod, how would you know it dosen't work if you've been with the same person for 35 years?

[crete]

ive never said i love you to anyone unless i meant,,,,, oh i did once but hay ho, so how early on saturday morning did he call round 4get to your house > ? cos i know you would never have a male guest staying overnight unless you were at least married >>> : )

[Skreecheeboy]

Never said it and never will until it's meant. Know how you feel though, or maybe I don't, I'm not sure if it's different for guys or not? In my experience it's women that say it more easily than men.

[-Zorro-]

Maybe he's after something else 4getmenot