thank you for all the great and helpful answers it helps to know that their are still people in the world (as crazy as it is) that still believe that love and happiness can still be found i guess some people are lucky and they find it other people are not as lucky and they don't find it i guess thats just how life is sometimes things work out for people. relationships are a great thing and of all the problems we deal with everyday love should be the last problem if you have someone that you love and you know they love you to don't let them go.
i do believe in fate and that things happen for a reason. i read an e -mail lasy week, that said "no man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is won't make you cry" and "don't cry because its over, smile because it happened". I think there is the right person there for everyone, but finding that can be diificult. Im still single, but always hopeful and looking.