I currently work full time so that my wife can remain home to raise our daughter.
I don�t have an issue with that, and neither does my wife.
She is not a paid employee who has to sit at home and feed the baby then do the housework and cook my tea before I get home. So your analogy that men wish to share (although this is in effect women sharing too) is quite correct and I do, although I don�t buy nor read FHM.
I am fortunate that I do not have to work �all the hours under the sun� but to do so would be counter-productive to having a wife or a family, since by the very nature of the expression you would never see them or enjoy life with them. If the situation was different, my wife would probably go to work (her choice) and we would try to reduce outgoings� or as a very last gesture, sell the Vanquish.