Boyfriend phone switched off-what should i think? Help!!

[SizzleSquid]

Ive recently met this really nice guy, ony thing is his phone has been off for over a day now (since yesterday morning) and he texted me from his brothers phone once to say his battery is dying and he will call me when he gets in from his brothers house. (he didn't say when he will b back and that was yesterday afternoon), but all up until now his phone is still swtiched off with no word. I am going out of my mind. Am i just being silly and should wait for him to call, or is he taking the **** out of me? Help :-(

[grumpii]

Be calm, if he doesnt phone you, there are plenty more fish in the sea.

[SizzleSquid]

but i think im falling in love wit him- it really hurts

[4getmenot]

how many times have you tried to know this is off, I hope when he turns his phone on or gets it charged he isnt going to have hundreds of missed calls or messaged because it will make you look very desperate. Give him time.

[nat_84]

Well to be fair...it was only yesterday afternoon that he called...

Maybe he's back this evening...?

Bit too soon to be panicking me thinks...xxx

[Craig007]

Has he got a rabbit? If so i suggest you boil it!! :o)

[4getmenot]

how recently have you met this bloke?

[SizzleSquid]

thanks 4getmenot- you are right, ive tried not to message him to try his phone too many times (ok on private number so he doesent get missed call messages from me) but i thibk by now he could have at least tried to contact me. im feeling really bad

[4getmenot]

but as you said its been a day and people back to work today after a long break are very busy at work, if he works that is.

[nat_84]

too much too soon - i mean you're not even a couple are you...?

Just try to relax, if a week's gone and he hasnt been in contact then i suggest you worry.

[SizzleSquid]

i met him about a month ago

[redcrx]

have you thought that perhaps his phone battery may be broken and may not be holding charge.
Maybe he is back at work and has has to turn phone off for meetings or something.
Dont fret, its only been 24 hours.

[SizzleSquid]

he doesnt work, but by everyones tone i guess i might be being a bit over the top- do you think if he desnt ring by tonight i should be worried?

[Supernick]

I've been this boy many times. I'm crap with my phone, and only keep my charger at work. I routinely run out of battery and leave it for over a day, shamefully when I've been in the initial stages of dating a girl.

I think if he's gone out of his way to contact you from somebody else's phone he should get the benefit of the doubt this time

[4getmenot]

and make sure you dont msg him having a go. I did this one time after not hearing from my bloke then I had a message from a number I didnt know, saying hi its me on mums phone just to say left my phone at work.... I was dredding him seeing the messages but he saw the funny side

[johnlambert]

Or maybe he's met someone else and hasn't the bottle to tell you

[SizzleSquid]

i left him one msg saying his phone has been off for over a day nw and that im really worried about him. Was that bad? I cant even concentrate on my job. i still think its out f orde although im being a bit paranoid. but cant help it

[SizzleSquid]

if he met someone else wouldnt his phone be on? its not jus me who rings him. now uve got me well upset, thanks.

[redcrx]

if the fact that his mobile battery means he cant text and you thinks thats 'out of order' then i cant see him texting you many more times. Give the guy a break or youll scare him off.

[johnlambert]

Sorry,
I hope his new girlfriend isn't as paranoid as you

[SizzleSquid]

ure right redcrx, guess as 4getmenot says, ill worry after a week. its just that he normally calls and textes me everyday and to suddenly stop is a bit different. thanks