holding hands

[discoinferno]

been seeing this bloke since october...only problem is that he refuses to hold my hand. not to be graphic, but we have reached all the other bases just seem to be having probs with this one. should i be worried?x

[Lin2006]

I think you should just mention it to him. After all,nothing ever gets sorted if you don't talk about it, it just festers. It may be a simple reason like he just doesn't like it, although he may change his tune if you tell him how much it bothers you. Hope this helps.

[nuoyg]

I agree with Lin, don't think it's anything to worry about though, some guys just don't like holding hands! :)

[Roughquest]

PDA or Public Dispalys of Affection, some guys just are not comfortable with this holding hands thingy, men are men, weird, lol, personally I ditch any guy that it scared of showing PDA....IMHO xx

[redhead23]

is he ashamed of you ??????????

[discoinferno]

thanx guys, yeah ur right Lin i shud just talk to him. i mentioned it last nite when he was trying to make a move on me but he just laughed it off...

its not that he's afraid of public affection, Roughquest, as he's more than happy to cuddle up to me while we're watchin footie or my mate's netball matches. he says holding hands is for couples...which does worry me....

redhead - i hope not!! he's more than happy to be seen out and about with me - he drags me everywhere with him!! but mayb he just doesn't wanna be seen to be with me...who knows!

disco x

[MrBen5]

Hmmm, i never hold hands in public. Not that i am ashamed, its just that it seems a bit girly to do. I wouldnt be worried about it, unless he has held hands with his previous girlfriends. Then there is reason to worry...

[Sasha13]

He says holding hands is for couples and that's why he doesn't do it? I think that would more than worry me - that'd have me running for the hills! Reaching all the other bases doesn't make you a couple - you need to talk to him about this now as this would sound BIG alarm bells for me until he clarified what he meant.

Good luck! x