am i being selfish??

[milo1978]

There's this bloke @ my wrk that I fancy the pants off, we flirt outragiously so Im sure he has some idea although he's generally a bit mean to me just like taking the mick big time. Anyway im going travelling in a few months for 9 months which he knows about, is there any point in trying to start anything?

[cazzz1975]

is he married??

[milo1978]

Nooooooooo!!!!!!
He's totally single! woohoo!!

[laurence2]

is he gay?

[milo1978]

Noo! He's straight-trust me!
Have i asked the right question here?!?!

[laurence2]

so its a sex thing with you then?

[milo1978]

No, but its interesting you say that because (im assuming you're a bloke-sorry if you're not!!) obviously thats how he'll see it right?

If i wasnt going he'd be somebody Id want to have a relationship with cos I like everything about him but unfortunately it cant be.

I suppose I want like a short term thing, short & sweet but definetely more than just sex! Thats what I mean is that selfish of me?

[laurence2]

i'm assuming thats how you see it as well.



''Fancy the pants off''


It might be selfish if you want it short &sweet, but he wants it long term

[enfable]

If he is constantly taking the mick in a friendly way it means that he fancys the pants off you. It helps build a repore especially if the micky taking is funny and makes you (and him) smile. Go for it if you don't you'll regret it. If you only want a quick fling there's no better time if your going travelling. If you want more and he does also 9 months is not long to wait. Absence makes the heart grow stronger and you could have a wicked time when you return

[milo1978]

Thanks all for your answers!

Today was another day of relentless cheeky emails but Ive decided I just dont have the balls to do anything about it, we'll see if we have a night out one day, maybe then.

Till then i'll just chew my arm off in frustration!