Going back?

[Rubyrose]

Since me and my ex broke up a year an a half ago I have reconnected with a lot of friends I lost touch with whilst I was with him! Not for any major reason did we lose touch, just that I was with my ex so spent most of my time with him. I mostly lost touch with my male mates though.

But in the last year I have become good mates again with some of them and 3 in particular that I used to have MAJOR crushes on before my ex. I have reconnected with all 3 of them and ended up 'getting' with two of them! Although once we 'hooked up' we kind of lost touch again. I don't really want to call or text them as it seems like its done with now.

Do you think it was just infinished business that needed to be sorted but never did coz I was with my ex at the time? I was with him 5yrs! I have now lost all feeling of the crushes I used to have for these 2 when I was about 14-15. Now the 3rd one has come along and we have got all flirty again and stuff and I feel like I did when I fancied him as a kid but this time I don't want to mess it up. I'm not saying anything will happen but it would be nice just to have him back as a friend... even though we are getting a bit flirty and it is nice and we used to be all flirty back then but nothing happened. Just seems that now we are more grown up and the flirty is even more intense and serious!

Should you ever go back? Or are crushes best left behind you as crushes?

[feist]

And just for the record, please get over your ''crush''. Its getting real boring, like hearing a broken record player play the same tuen over and over agin........................

[legend758duo]

ME ME ME ME ME


can you hear that echoing thru your head???

i agree with feist.


time to be mature and forget about it.

time to move on

[Rubyrose]

Feist - Considering I have only been back in touch with this guy since Monday and only posted 1 Q about it I really don't see how I sound like a broken record... Unless you just keep reading my Q over and over again!

Leg-end... Has your Cyber Q gone? I can't see it!

[legend758duo]

im sure it has .

its ok tho i still got the original link i was sent .
cybersex tut tut ruby .

lol

[feist]

I dunno Ruby, I remember reading another Q posed by you, about a ''crush'' a few weeks back. Strange you don't remember it. But good luck with your friend, just keep it to yourself thanks.

[Skreecheeboy]

Those 2 are just bitter and old Ruby, I've got a crush on a different bird every week! It's summer and everyone is hot, enjoy it as we're only young once!

[legend758duo]

skreech more ramblings from some d!ck hard wee gimp.

foget it m8 she aint that hot .

its summer here everyday gimp so get over yourself.

[Rubyrose]

Feist that was about a guy at work! I have liked him for a year and everyone knows it.... the recent guy is someone I fancied for years and have just got back in touch with! Hardly enough to fill a biography!

Leg-end... Why you directing the cyber sex thing at me??? :oS

Schreeech.... I get crushes all the time.... have fancied most of the guys at my work at one time or another but never anything major... Just small ones that last a week... But I daren't shout about it on AB everytime it happens! Lol

[feist]

Skeeche, I'm hardly what you'd call old lol. Btw, hope you don't look anything like Skreeche from Saned by the Bell, he was a real geek from what I remember.

Ruby, yeah please just keep all your boring monologues about your boring life to yourself. We really don't want to know nor does anyone care, Really! Now get back to work.

[Rubyrose]

Feist my lovely... I have a little tip for you... I'm just going to throw this out there... and perhaps its something you already know... but..... if you don't want to know about my life.. stop reading my threads!

[feist]

Ruby, sweetie, I don't Want to read your boring threads, most of the times I avoid them, but unfortunately they clog up the website and push more interesting posts further down.

Anyhow, why do you think people online would be interested in your life on a day to day basis? Do you not have any real friends to chat it over with perhaps?

[Rubyrose]

Yet here you still are... helping keep my boring Q in the 'most recently answered' tab.. ;o)

I don't post it coz I think people would be interested in it... I post it so I can get answers and views on the matter.... not coz I think it would make good reading for the situation...... And yes I have plenty of real friends but they all give the same view and tell me to go for it... it's nice to get a perspective from people who don't know the in's and out's. That's what this site is for! Duh!

[feist]

I'm only replying to this Boring thread coz I want to make sure you get the hint hunny. Coz the fact is, no one really gives a damn about your stupid crushes or who liked last week...... you are just driving people away from what was once an interesting website.

Ok if you don't have the brains to come up with your own decisions on really trivial/simple matters, then go ahead and post and bore us to tears .... It would be a real shame if you ended up bog-eyed with the amount of time you spend on AB all day posting drivel and more drivel.... lol, lol, lol.

Keep it up, only make sure you get off the net every now and then, exercise is good for you.

[Rubyrose]

Feist - Why would I ever listen and take the advice of someone who can't get their point across without being rude and insulting! I shall post as I see fit... and no amount of you doing your AB Patrols with stop me!

[feist]

As i said, post away to your heart's content, don't get out of that computer chair until 5pm when its time to go home. And when you get home, jump into another computer chair and log back onto AB with some drivel like "What did I miss??? I've been away for 10mins, what did I miss? AB Is my life!!""

Have fun, sweetie.

[Rubyrose]

LMFAO!!!! Haha. How little you know me! I am the only person in this office who has to walk up and down all day long doing stuff... I'm just lucky I get to check into AB in the breaks! Haha!

As for posting 'what did I miss'.... I only did that once and it was after my weeks holiday in Italy... little different than a ten min pee break!

[feist]

Ok stop boring me now, I'm off cozI have a life. Go chat some more and keep posting drivel lol

Cheers, hun. I dont think I want to know you at all anyway