How many is too many?

[browneyedgir]

Was just speaking to my friend about a certain reality tv show on at the moment and she said she thought one of the contestants was easy as she had slept with 6 men yet was only 19. Got me thinking, I am sure we all have different opinions but how many sexual partners would you think was a lot if you asked your boyf/girlf/husband/wife how many they'd had?

[feist]

missing word is **don't ... D'oh :)

[browneyedgir]

Feist - who are you referring to as a tart?

[joko]

i also think most people are brought to feel that they should be ashamed and that sex is dirty, so we feel our instant reaction to this number should be "oh too many!"

in actual fact i know many people probably would like to have sex with any person they like - the desire is there, but not the guts to do it for fear of gossip - i also know many who regualarly have sex with a number of other people i.e, fcuk buddies, friends wot fcuk, etc etc and as long as it remains secret its fine.

its all about perception, not the person being chaste.

and besides we all know that those numbers are often a lie anyway, don't we...?

[feist]

Someone on here whose sordid past has been discussed over the last few days (to think they are 'loose' online and offline as well). Its strange how deeply people online (on AB anyway) get involved sometimes .... I think, actually I'm pretty sure I'm going to be keeping my distance from everyone on AB now, can't trust anybody on here.

[joko]

what are you on about feist?