update!!!

[nannon]

So me and my boyf have a really long tralk last night- sorted everything out - make another go of things. Realised our love was strong enough to get through this.

Then i ask him if there is anything else......

He says he hasnt been truthful with me.......

He's lied about his age, He is 42!!!!!!!!! Not 35.

Having a laugh. Told him to do one. Not because of his age but because he has lied to my face for 10 months.

I know i have to end it, no question about it but bloody hell it still hurts.

[4getmenot]

http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Body-and-Soul/R elationships-and-Dating/Question439829.html

[4getmenot]

http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Body-and-Soul/Q uestion440530.html

[leewayne]

Well dont believe in violence at all,seen it alot while i was growing up.It starts with little things like that,my mums still going through it now,id say knock it on the head before it gets worse,your only both gonna end up getting hurt.

[monkeyeyes]

leewayne - Perhaps you could have used a different turn of phrase to recommend terminating this relationship due to the domestic violence ?!? :o) lol

[cruella]

Hi nannon
I really do not think his lying to you about his age is a big issue.
You were so upset at the weekend after your tiff.
I think the reason he lied about his age was that he was afraid you would not go out with him again. Time marched on and then he did not have the courage to tell the truth.
Age difference is nothing at all. I am 9 years older than my Husband and it does not even come into it. I would give him another chance but if messes up then bin him.

[leewayne]

ha ha very funny,didnt mean to come out like that