family love?

[shuugs]

I went to my mums sisters house this weekend and I have always fancied my mums nephew, my cousin, he is really fit and he's about 26. when I went round we have always flirted but I was feeling a bit low as the bloke I am in love with doesn't seem to want to know, so I flirted extra hard with my cousin, he kissed me and then we had sex, it was good and I really fancy him and I think I love him but I don't know if this is wrong or not, is it wrong for cousins to be in love? are cousins really family? TIA xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[Goodsoulette]

oh for crying out loud, the old im better looking than her line. I think I preferred the lesbian 18 yr old.

[pinkkitty]

but we aren't talking about pregnancy. though there is a teeny chance your pill could fail and you could get up the duff.

we're talking horribe diseases that can leave you sterile, or even dead - HIV/AIDS, Chlamydia, Gonorrhea etc etc.

and why would you want to get pregant, it wouldn't neccessarily mean he'd leave his GF and come to you. maybe the opposite, even, and he'll run for the hills

[Pippa68]

But you won't be getting pregnant because you are on the pill.

You may well get clamydia/syphillis or that really nasty one beginning with G...

[Pippa68]

That's the one, pinkkitty! your spelling is better than mine too :o)

[Octavius]

Gooey wotsits?

He loves you, you love him.
It�s the love that counts. Go for it shuugs.
He sounds like the type of guy that will leave his wife, especially for someone just like you.

[pinkkitty]

yeah, it took me so long to post because i had to try and figure out how to spell it!

[shuugs]

Whya is everyone being so man to me???? I realy do want advice, I have never felt like this about anyone before!

[johnlambert]

go for it!!!!

[jno]

4got, are you suggesting zack and shuugs could in any way be related? Cousins perhaps? How nice to be hearing both sides of the story

[shuugs]

do you really think it will work???? :) :)

[joanne713]

Why dont you try asking your mum for advice??!!!!

[Pippa68]

You have been given advice.

Your Q started out ok, but the rest just got daft.

[Octavius]

Never felt tlike this? You mean apart from the bloke to whom you wanted to say you loved him, despite never going on a date or being asked out by him?

We are not being mean, we are saying.............

GO FOR IT.

[Psychick]

If you stop and read what most are saying, we are trying to offer you advice. We are saying he is only after one thing, which you easily gave, and that you need to be protecting yourself against STD's.

Please excuse me while I go bang my head on another brick wall as I dont seem to be banging it hard enough against this one! lol

[shuugs]

itIt�s a flaw in me I get too involved I know I do but I cant help it, I really can see something coming from this. I cant talk to my mum as I know she would not approve

[Octavius]

She might, if you go for it.

[sense4all]

I on the other hand am finding myself strangely attracted to Octavious today ! lol.

[redcrx]

here we go again!

You want advice? My personal opinion is that its wrong to sleep with a cousin.

But then would you even take on board advice? Surely by the age of 24 youve read many a time about how the pill doesnt protect from STD and yet even with the comments above you havnt got a clue how much you arte risking by not using a condom

Im surprised anyone is bothering to continue to waste their time.

As for your Qs last week, Id say not youre obviously not in love!!!!!!!!!

[Octavius]

Sense, that happens alot, it is a burden I often bear.

Is it obvious that I am having a bad day?!!

[society]

I smell Russian here. This sounds like a wind-up. Otherwise Shuggs is an young, immature and behaves like a fast, cheap and easy ........