Question for fellow female answerbankers

[skyep]

Apologies if my question appears twice! How tactile / demonstrative is your other half / partner? I love my husband very much, but if I had to wait for spontaneous affection, I would wait a long time! lol, I just dont think it's in his nature. However, if I give him a cuddle or a kiss, he is very loving back?

[B00]

I'm with your hubby i'm afraid (well, not literally!). I'm not one for kisses and cuddles either, infact I get slightly irritated that my personal space is being invaded....lol Luckily Mr Boo is pretty much the same, though not as bad I guess.

I think we're the proverbial grumpy couple- heh.

[RATTER15]

Does groping her jigglies as im passing count?

[annie0000]

I'm with BOO, but my other half is more like you skyep - I think that I am getting him trained though!!! Seriously, I think that he feels neglected because i am not like that, but I guess it is just the way I am.

[Pirate1]

How spontaneous and affectionate of you RATTER15!

[Pirate1]

Does she grope your jiggly everytime she goes past you?

[RATTER15]

it has been known!!

[skyep]

RATTER , lol That was a serious question! We don't ask for much, tenderness means a lot!!!

[skyep]

By the way RATTER, just sent your you tube link to a few friends :0)

[B00]

Can buying me toffees and crisps from the shop be classed as tenderness?

[RATTER15]

I think we are both very demonstrative actually, always hugging or just touching sometimes, always walk around hand in hand.

[RATTER15]

Who put "sometimes" in there?

[skyep]

Can I ask you how long you have been together ratter? I normally think if a couple are walking hand in hand, its a pretty new relationship, am I totally wrong there?

[skyep]

BOO, I suppose it is in a funny kind of way.

[Carakeel]

Well RATTER, I didn't know you considered yourself a female!!! NOW YOU TELL ME!!! LOL XXX

RATTER being my other half, I can report that he is very loving, affectionate and tactile, which is what I want in my man. He is not shy to cuddle me in private or in public. Even when I was in a wheelchair after my knee ops, when we were in the supermarket he often would walk beside me, his hand gently caressing the back of my neck. He is very open about his feelings for me, wherever we are, and that is really lovely. We are both naturally very affectionate and tactile in public, but do keep things in good taste. :o)

[B00]

All joking aside though skyep, I think Mr Boo shows his tenderness in other ways. For example, the way he helped me bathe the gunk off me after i'd had Mini Boo (apologies if anyone's eating!). The way he also had tears in his eyes when I broke my wrist and how worried he was while we waiting over 5 hours for someone to attend to me.

As long as I really know how he feels, I don't need/ want all that mushy, kissy kissy crap.

[skyep]

Carakeel, thats really sweet, suppose he wouldn't like to be called sweet would he? What a nice rat he is!

[RATTER15]

I aint sweet!! OK!

[Pirate1]

Well you sound sweet to me!!! Can I just ask though, are you both sitting at seperate computers and not communicating directly??

[RATTER15]

I shot Bambi's Mum!!!

[bigmamma]

I shouldn't really be on this thread as I am too single to feel I can comment but , if I was have a partner I think I would love to have what RATTER and Carakeel share. :-)