Couples

[4getmenot]

Who actually sat down and asked their partner out? If you didnt are you acting like a foolish teenager as legend says or is it merely that you trust that person?

[legend758duo]

commitment .

are we taking the arguement elsewhere?
iom sure BOO and lamby will be here soon.


id imagine the married ones were asked.

and most others too .

but we shall see

im intrigued now.

it may be the modern way .

no strings commitment eh ?

[redcrx]

OMG me and my fella didnt ask each other out. We just met up for a drink one eve and the next and the next weekend etc etc etc.

3 years on and Im worried now as hes not asked me out. What will i tell our kids when they grow up??

We trust each other, neither is the sort to see loads of people at same time, maybe because we are older, who knows.

[4getmenot]

No I;m asking people as would like to find out if you're right again whether you should ask them out and have a discussion. :-) I think its nice to have a few dates and just carry on from there, everythings a bit too formal nowadays

[4getmenot]

you will have to say I'm sorry me and daddy dont love eachother because we arent going out because you were foolish

[legend758duo]

doesnt trust have to have commitment as well ?

or is that an old fashioned idea?

so red he never asked you if youd like to go out with him?
or you him ?

looks like no chance of a wedding then eh ??


as long as you trust him i guess thats ok

[redcrx]

oh no!!! no wedding dress? no flowers??

surely children are more of a commitment than a wedding band?

[laurence2]

i met on a holiday romance, and when we got back home, i was straight on the dog to her, and invited myself up to her house.

Am i to forward

[4getmenot]

bit old fashaioned what are you meaning by commitment exactly? Trust is the biggest factor in my relationship and I know if I didnt maybe I'd want a definate answer to if we are together or not. But anyone can see we are very happy as a couple

[4getmenot]

so because red has never asked him out they will never get married?

[redcrx]

no because youre a man Laurence. If you were a woman then youd be a slag of course :)