I have quite an embarasing question for the men

[shuugs]

I dont want to just say it so ill say it in code as there might be children on here! when you get, ahem, hard, is it something you can control or does it just happen. can you make it go or does it have a mind of its own when its it that mood! og god that sounds really bad! TIAxxxx shuugs

[someguy0000]

wack it on the head!!!! it ll soon dissappear

[sleepyj]

what a excting post lol

[shuugs]

oh its not me, im not a man! lol i was just wondering what happened as i know someone where this has happened a few times unexpectedly and i have kibnda said oi, get rid of that and they have been like, well, i cant you know!! lol

[Wix]

Why don't we call it "X".
Then that'll get rid of the thick children.

[shuugs]

good idea wix! plus it'll save my embarasment! lol

[bobtheturkey]

i can play kum bay ah on mine with a wooden spatula

[someguy0000]

some one lluuurrrvvves you shuugs!!! lol

[oldgrape]

i'm a woman but films i've seen tell the boy to think of something else i.e your granny, maths etc etc

[shuugs]

LOL dont say that I would die of embarasment! although it does happen alot but then thing is even if it is that he doesnt seem embarased when it happens! so does X have a mind of its own then??? xxx

[sleepyj]

i would love to be a man just for the day love to know what a ha*d on feels like ....

[shuugs]

how worrying would it be though if u told them to think of your gran and it stayed!!!!!!!

[shuugs]

me too! and to experience the other stuff with the bits on the outside! lil

[shuugs]

but if you are somewhere or with someone you shouldnt have one and you get one, what would you do? quite oftenthis person goes to the toilet if we are near one and its gone when he comes out is there some trick men have as in talking to themselves about something etc ot thinking of something nasty???

[someguy0000]

joking apart...i think it all depends on how old this person is.... teenagers and 20 somethings are always getting them...part of growing up.... i would nt worry too much about it, he s probably embarrased enough as it is!! :)

[Pippa68]

According to Mr Pippa his has a mind all of it's own.

Thinking about Sue Pollard in the nuddy usually makes it retreat..

[shuugs]

hi he is 28. is it normal? xxx

[shuugs]

would it only harden in a situation like that when someone is turned on or would there be other factors? x thanks

[Myriad2112]

You can have a w@nk, that'll get rid of it

[Pippa68]

Well yet again I can only go by what my husband tells me.

Apparently he gets ermmmm..a hard one..without thinking of anything sexual. In fact it surprises him.

I happen to think that is a load of bollow, and that it happens when he sees a pretty girl in a low cut top with nipples like organ stops.