people dont know their limit nowadays......

[blu3wave]

I was in the club last night and there was this fat girl dancing there, by herself, in the middle of the room..... anyway, she was really drunk and laughing/snorting really loudly, just plain embarasing herself. I wanted to tell her that's enough, I thik you should go home now, as clearly she didn't understand and seemed to have behaved like this many times before.....
Anyway, then a bouncer came and told her to get the hell out, then pushed her towards the door and that was the end of that mortifying evening for her (though not for her and she'll be back at the club tonight, no doubt)

My question is, do people not have any limits nowadays? Do they drink booze until there red in the face coz they think it makes them look cool and ''dangerous''?? (even though they prolly live with their mum n dad and cant hold onto a proper job to save their life?) I'm just fed up with seeing losers like this everywhere who do everything (eat/drink/do drugs etc) in excess... is this what society is coming to now??

[cazzz1975]

you are obsessed with fat girls blu3wave, you made another dubious posting a few days ago about a fat girl, are you a fat girl looking for some opinions?

[4getmenot]

she was on large ladies post

[cazzz1975]

you forgot the glut of self obsessed bitchy girls in britain, to keep pointing out peoples weight only highlights your own insecurities, people who are happy with themselves dont make rude remarks based on someones size..

[redcrx]

clubbing on a monday night? The club owners obviously know how to target the bingers.

Mind you, if she was enjoying herself dancing then whats the problem? and whats being fat got to do with it?

[cazzz1975]

was she 4get? I bet she was sl@gging them off ...

..oh the joy of anonymity..hiding behind a name....

[cazzz1975]

she was probably jealous that the big girl was having fun and not too shy to get downn!!

[4getmenot]

I dont quite get what fat has to do with anything, skinny girls humiliate themselves too.

[hippyhoppy]

No - but have been to Flares!

[cazzz1975]

I think blu3wave wanted us to say how disgusting it was and how fat people are gross....

she would answer more of the post if we were doing that

[cazzz1975]

lol legend, she didnt answer that one either ;)

[Sasha13]

I figured I'd hold off answering this for a bit since I'm a bit biased when it comes to blu3wave - ignorant, cruel and self centered cow that she is. Thought I'd let a few other people answer first. Interesting to see that they seem to be less than impressed with this question too.

By the way, I don't think a bouncer would say to someone who wasn't causing any trouble 'get the hell out' - I'd have thought she'd have been steered gently but firmly towards the exit. But far from me, blu3wave, to accuse you of making up a question just to provoke a response from ABers.

But in answer to the question - I go out quite a lot. Sometimes I get fairly hammered. Sometimes I dance like a loon. I do this in places where it is relatively acceptable - for example I wouldn't do this in a posh wine bar, I do it in clubs where everyone is up for a laugh.

Do I have limits? Yes. Do I reserve the right to go beyond them sometimes in the name of winding down? Yes. Do I think there's anything wrong in this? As long as I'm not hurting anyone yes. Do I think people who have a problem with this should go and drink elsewhere? Yes.

[Sasha13]

Of course that should have said 'Do I think there's anything wrong in this? As long as I'm not hurtung anyone, NO' :-0

[blu3wave]

I know she embarassed herself, becoz practically everyone was sniggering and laughing at her, only she was too busy snorting and laughing and flopping about to notice .... if that's not embarassing I dont know what is. I dont think anybody will forget her face if she were ever to come back to this particular club (heaven forbid?)
The girl got thrown out for being a saddo, and making a fool of herself. If she'd have been thin, she'd still have been thrown out.... being fat isnt the issue, i think you all are making it one. A Big one.

PS, cazzy--- me? fat? never!

[blu3wave]

Sasha, were you out late last nite by any chance??

[redcrx]

being fat isnt the issue and yet you put it in the first line of your post.

Just because some people had nothing more interesting to do than sit and laugh at her still doesnt mean she embarressed herself.

[dot.hawkes]

this is a load of tripe, anyone paying the entrance fee to a club can dance how thay want, and no doorperson would manhandle a punter to the door like that just for dancing, expecially a female, they would be accused of assault, they are not even allowed to touch someone using threatening behavior except in self-defence.