people dont know their limit nowadays......

[blu3wave]

I was in the club last night and there was this fat girl dancing there, by herself, in the middle of the room..... anyway, she was really drunk and laughing/snorting really loudly, just plain embarasing herself. I wanted to tell her that's enough, I thik you should go home now, as clearly she didn't understand and seemed to have behaved like this many times before.....
Anyway, then a bouncer came and told her to get the hell out, then pushed her towards the door and that was the end of that mortifying evening for her (though not for her and she'll be back at the club tonight, no doubt)

My question is, do people not have any limits nowadays? Do they drink booze until there red in the face coz they think it makes them look cool and ''dangerous''?? (even though they prolly live with their mum n dad and cant hold onto a proper job to save their life?) I'm just fed up with seeing losers like this everywhere who do everything (eat/drink/do drugs etc) in excess... is this what society is coming to now??

[blu3wave]

The people are not gonna close their eyes if ppl about them are making fools of themselves. So they pointed and laughed... why not? its quite natural and I think if you were there, who knows, you might have done the same.

I said 'fat girl' becoz she was. Its a fact. Its a valid description and inoffensive word so I think I am entilted to use it.

The bouncer did push her out coz she was too bloated and drunk to walk the right way by herself. If he had slapped her, she wouldnt have noticed as she was too drunk to even know what was going on around her. Good ridance i say.

[Goodsoulette]

You have only mentioned fat because for some reason you like everyone going at you for saying it.
Fat wasn't needed in the description as I doubt very much you would have said "some averagely sized girl got kicked out for being wasted".
Are you fat blu3wave? I kinda get the feeling you might be and you come on here to pretend to be a thin person. I think the only people who really have a problem with fat people are fat people because they know how much it sucks not to be the centre of attention for nice reasons, or buy the nice clothes etc etc

[redcrx]

ah well, you do seem to have a better imagination than the ruskie

[dot.hawkes]

Well if you are in that club tonight and you see this young lady, (does it have lots of mirrors) you should express your concerns in a more positive and proactive way by speaking to her and finding out why she feels the need to be so outgoing and dance on a dancefloor whilst she is on a night out in a club, also, ask her what possesses her to buy drinks from the bar, I've never heard the like, she must be crazy.

[Rubyrose]

I don't get the problem! Why did they throw her out if she was just dancing?

She didn't know you, you didn't know her.. so she wasn't embarrassing you and she was clearly having fun. Leave her be, I say!

[4getmenot]

Other people might have laughed but doesn�t mean she embarrassed herself sounds like she had a good night. And if being fat is a fact then why not tell us the size of the bouncer or the surroundings, what she had to drink etc. Because these have nothing to do with the question just like being fat doesn�t!! why you so caught up in these fat peoples lives, are you jelous they are having more fun than you

[dot.hawkes]

ello slippers, hi forget, is this person often on here then?

[blu3wave]

So now I'm jealous of fat ppl ...Lol, ok whatever makes sense to you all. And no I'm not fat, I dont need to prove it to you either :)

If I see her tonight on the dancefloor, I'm gonna tell the bouncer to pull her off and kick her out the door again.
Have any of you ever seen drunk ppl dancing and laughing and falling about? Not fun.... also, its not exactly something to be proud of... plus, she def put the guys off.... so I dunno how it was a fun nite for her. Unless gettin drunk and making an idiot of herslef is her way of letting of steam.

[So_Very_Lost]

but??? someone carried on serving her the alcohol......
You I presume. And she helped pay your wages too???....
or are you the toilet attendant?

[redcrx]

just for you Dot, 2 previous questions from blu3wave

http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Body-and-Soul/Q uestion445667.html

http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Body-and-Soul/R elationships-and-Dating/Question454733.html

as you can see, we are always given the important facts.

[4getmenot]

just frumpy. What exactly is your problem with fat people then. Its not about size, looks its about personality and you seem to have a vile one

[4getmenot]

what gives you right to spoil her night for having a laugh and dancing?

[blu3wave]

No, she must have been bar hoppin to get so ******..... poor fool all alone as well.... I'm sure she prolly spent the rst of the eveing in a toilet. What a fun nite that must have been.

[Sasha13]

Was I out late last night blu3wave??

What's that got to do with it??

Ahh, I see, you think the person in your question was me.

Hahahahahahaha.

Maybe it was, maybe it wasn't.

Dear oh dear - can't you do better than that??!! Pathetic.

[blu3wave]

4get, I get the feeling maybe it was you out last nite ... can't quite remember what happened can you?
And I didnt spoil her nite lol, she spoilt everyone else's (those around her anyway) .... and then got kicked out. She deserved it and if she comes back to do it again then who am to stop the bouncer?

[4getmenot]

why are you so wrapped up in this persons life??

[redcrx]

not my idea of a good night out but if she enjoyed it then who is anyone to critisise?
Let her live her life and you, go find one instead of having to rely on bitching about other people's.

[blu3wave]

I get the feeling Sasha and 4get are the same person.... equally crap and vile :)

[4getmenot]

so I must be you aswell Sasha. If it was me which I doubt it I was babysitting then I wouldnt have given a tOss what others thought as long as I was having a good time. whats the matter didnt you have a good night that you had to watch this girl all night? Ah bless oh well dont worry maybe you'll pull next time.

[redcrx]

pmsl.

oh and before you say it, no Im no-one else on here, and i wasnt out clubbing last night.