certainly not upsetting me Ice maiden, I am not a person for social activity especially going in pubs, I get enough human interaction every day at work, it is a real treat to be somewhere peaceful and quiet. i have very little extended family as they are dead or live away, and my kids are all grown and have their own life. my close friends are all living away too and so i see them seldom but we chat regularly and often. I think i am able to contribute to this site mainly in a positive way and i enjoy it. If i was stuck at home 24/7 and on here endlessly I might feel some guilt, but i am not. I also don't feel that some of the people on here are strangers, not after interacting with them for this amount of time. It suits me fine and I think it is a very successful and popular passtime in this modern age.