Its funny you posted a question like this legend.
My Sister-in-laws son stole my boys money jar about 18months ago whilst i wasen't in the house, i and my wife were working so my mother-in law was looking after my boys.
There was about �260 in the bottle, i wanted to kill him, and if the truth be known, i would off if i would of found him, we had him arrested {hes no angel} and only this morning his mum spoke to my wife {sisters} to wish my wife a happy birthday today, then went on to say that her son wants to apologise because hes riddled with guilt, my wife told her sister that at this moment in time she does not want an apology tho she hasen't ruled this out. i told her i want nothing to do with him, and if i dropped down dead tomorrow, he would not be able to attend my funeral, i hate him, and i only have two choices,
1} ignore him and he avoids me for the rest of my life
2} I'll finish up in prison.
Number 1 would be my preference, but it would not take much to trigger number 2
Forgive and forget?
Not me i'm afraid