what to do

[paula33uk]

hello i'm new and im facing a heartbreaking situation even tho i no what ur replies r gunna be but here it goes i've been wth fiance for 17 years 3 children eldest 16 then 13 then 12 ive had problems al time with him i dnt understand why he wans female attention like he dus i give him everything sex has not been a problem it him wanting to sit with girls who have a terrible record for sleeping about but both swear blind as they do nothing happened he says he were selling clothes bags etc to her but he new i cudnt stand her or her mate because of their reputation but hten a text appeared on mobile quoting didnt get a kiss want one no name with the number so neva said i saw it i rang 2 times girl answered got me sister to ring it pretendin she got wrong number i so got nowhere then i asked me m8 who worked in sunbed shop do u no this number explained situation no she said i got of sunbed and her daughter wer there and m8 said stacey will ring it for u so she said gis num giv her it n said thats went wrong in mean time she text her m8 so i think then said gis tha num again cos it i put wrong one in or summit giv her it she rang then giv it or s*** its mandy 's num its cumin up her name but been turned off i said no way she said here look wen i saw mandys name she had 2 calls to the number which she claimed first call went wrong i said right ill sort it with him went home told b/f to get out cos i new who it wer went to pick kids up then i got phone call from lass who said its mandys number sayin *** back 2 sunbed shop i need to tel u summit i went back n she said right theres a rumour john is seein mandy about 5 people have said it in the pub we go to i said u r jokin he walks past her every week in the pub as if he dnt no her (probs cos i cant stand her or any1 else for that matter) she said honestly for 2 months apparently so i pulled lass as our lad said dunno what ur on about she said ive bought clothes yes and thats it and i lost mobile phone 2 weeks ago i

[daffy654]

I would like to be able to advise you but your question is unreadable due to text speak and lack of punctuation.

I think you might be saying your fiance is cheating on you?????? If this is the case then you need to try and find out for sure and not just listen to gossip. If he is cheating then you can either try family counselling with an organisation such as RELATE or you need to talk about it with your fiance in a non confrontational manner and discuss what you both expect from the relationship. If neither of you are happy then there is only really one solution and that is to go your seperate ways.Good luck.

[redcrx]

same as Daffy, the lack of any punctuation or even a chance to draw breath means that this is a very difficult post to understand.

What are you actually trying to ask here? You say you know what our replies are going to be so please give us a clue as to what your question is.

It sounds like everyone has told you he is cheating, so have you actually asked him directly?

[lizzydrippin]

sorry, would love to help, but like the previous posts I really couldn't make head nor tail of what you were trying to ask.

[chicklin]

Its never a good idea to believe gossip but you already seemed to have an idea he may be cheating on you...
I've learnt to trust my 'sixth sense' where men are concerned.....there are always little signs when they're up to something. Sometimes we choose to ignore these signs but in our heart of hearts - we know something isn't right.
What has he got to say for himself? If it was me - I'd have to confront him and decide if I could believe what he told me.

[Sharrazan]

Like some other people here, I am afraid I lost the will to live trying to even read this. Sorry cant help as I cannot understand the question. Good luck though.

[liquidspace]

yeah but no but