Family & Relationships0 min ago
anticipation
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Now that ChatterBank has been restored Body & Soul can return to it proper function.
A two part question:
Is it true that sex would be even better if we had only waited until it was over before beginning?
and
Would an extra ten minutes really make that much difference?
A two part question:
Is it true that sex would be even better if we had only waited until it was over before beginning?
and
Would an extra ten minutes really make that much difference?
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I presume sex will be better as I'm putting in the waiting time, if anticipation is a contributory factor then it is going to be explosive.
However, being celibate, I am loathe to give up my present condition so cheaply for an experience that can only be measured in minutes, even double digit ones. (No egg timer jokes please).
What effect this would have on my mind is unfathomable.
However, being celibate, I am loathe to give up my present condition so cheaply for an experience that can only be measured in minutes, even double digit ones. (No egg timer jokes please).
What effect this would have on my mind is unfathomable.
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Triggerhippy - Sorry to have renamed you by mistake, some psychological explanation there considering the subject matter. Freudian?
But onward and upward as they say.
I'm sure if the vicar peers in, he will only see a healthy attitude to sex being discussed, and may wish to make a contribution himself, after all, vicars have to counsel all types of people with all types of relationship problems.
But onward and upward as they say.
I'm sure if the vicar peers in, he will only see a healthy attitude to sex being discussed, and may wish to make a contribution himself, after all, vicars have to counsel all types of people with all types of relationship problems.
Triggerhippy - I'm glad to learn that you don't sleep around, good for you. Yucky pursuit anway in my estimation, all tinsel and no content.
Do i miss it? I did at first, thought that as you say, there was an itch I couldn't scratch, but the itch went away, so no, I don't miss it.
Maybe I have a classical text book life, where sexual activity is like a barometer of things like maturity, depth of relationship, duration of relationship, and the teenage starry eyed wonder of love and the sap rising gradually changing over time and experience into something entirely different, that a teenager would look at me as if I had two heads if I tried to explain it to them.
I think I lost the plot there.
Am I making sense?
Do i miss it? I did at first, thought that as you say, there was an itch I couldn't scratch, but the itch went away, so no, I don't miss it.
Maybe I have a classical text book life, where sexual activity is like a barometer of things like maturity, depth of relationship, duration of relationship, and the teenage starry eyed wonder of love and the sap rising gradually changing over time and experience into something entirely different, that a teenager would look at me as if I had two heads if I tried to explain it to them.
I think I lost the plot there.
Am I making sense?
triggerhippy, Anticipation, that extra time that fills ones mind and affects ones physiology with the possibilities of ones experience prior to a soon to be realised fulfillment of desire (or dread). Such as the return of ChatterBank!
