frozenpeas - I think this is why the abortion debate rages on. You've seen your baby move, and know that he or she is a real little person. I feel for you, knowing that if you have this child, you might end up as a single parent, but also you say that you couldn't cope without your partner, so it seems to me as though you might not be ready to be a mum, whether your partner's around or not. I think you should listen to your heart - not what HE wants you to do. So many women have abortions, only to regret what they've done. If you choose not to have this baby, then I hope you use reliable contraception in future, but in your shoes, I know what I'd do.