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Dirty Talk!!
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I read in magazines that talking 'dirty' to your man is the thing to do and obviously many of us have probably tried and tested this and possibly do it all the time! i can send txts and pictures etc to show him what he's instore for later quite easily but i feel that i cant find the right thing to say in the moment.like the scene in friends where ross is with a girl and she asks him to talk dirty and all he can say is vulva!i guess im askng what sort of things you say to please your man?thanks!!
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.He he! I so want to be graphic here but don't want to be banned from AB! For a bit of advice have a look at:
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextaboos/0,,t raceycox_c0pnkb69,00.html
and try Googling 'how to talk dirty' for loads of ideas!
Funnily enough, no matter much I talk dirty to my boyfriend, he never reciprocates. Got me worried at first that I was going to far but he has assured me that he loves it and that he doesn't say anything in return because he's 'too busy concentrating and men can only do one thing at a time'!
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextaboos/0,,t raceycox_c0pnkb69,00.html
and try Googling 'how to talk dirty' for loads of ideas!
Funnily enough, no matter much I talk dirty to my boyfriend, he never reciprocates. Got me worried at first that I was going to far but he has assured me that he loves it and that he doesn't say anything in return because he's 'too busy concentrating and men can only do one thing at a time'!
Don't believe what you read in magazines!
Honestly - they do give a highly distorted picture of what 'men' - and we are not a homoginised species any more than 'women' are - want in bed, or indeed out of it.
The simple rule is this when it comes to intimacy of any kind, including talking to your partner -
if you are happy and comfortable doing what you are doiing, then it's fine for you two, and that might be anything from nightie on - lights off to a three-way with a Shetland pony!
If talking dirty comes naturally to you, then give it a go, if it doesn;t then don't. Your man will be less turned on by your trying to force yourself into something you obviously don;t do naturally, than if you just comment occasionally on what you like when he is doing something you enjoy.
Don't feel pressurised to fil some sort of magazine-based ideal - if you flip that logic over, you'll be trying to find a man like Brad Pitt, because no-one else can maker love as well as a gorgeous Hollywood hunk.
Stick to what you like, know, and enjoy - the rest all follows naturally.
Trust me - I'm a man!
Honestly - they do give a highly distorted picture of what 'men' - and we are not a homoginised species any more than 'women' are - want in bed, or indeed out of it.
The simple rule is this when it comes to intimacy of any kind, including talking to your partner -
if you are happy and comfortable doing what you are doiing, then it's fine for you two, and that might be anything from nightie on - lights off to a three-way with a Shetland pony!
If talking dirty comes naturally to you, then give it a go, if it doesn;t then don't. Your man will be less turned on by your trying to force yourself into something you obviously don;t do naturally, than if you just comment occasionally on what you like when he is doing something you enjoy.
Don't feel pressurised to fil some sort of magazine-based ideal - if you flip that logic over, you'll be trying to find a man like Brad Pitt, because no-one else can maker love as well as a gorgeous Hollywood hunk.
Stick to what you like, know, and enjoy - the rest all follows naturally.
Trust me - I'm a man!