Don't believe what you read in magazines!
Honestly - they do give a highly distorted picture of what 'men' - and we are not a homoginised species any more than 'women' are - want in bed, or indeed out of it.
The simple rule is this when it comes to intimacy of any kind, including talking to your partner -
if you are happy and comfortable doing what you are doiing, then it's fine for you two, and that might be anything from nightie on - lights off to a three-way with a Shetland pony!
If talking dirty comes naturally to you, then give it a go, if it doesn;t then don't. Your man will be less turned on by your trying to force yourself into something you obviously don;t do naturally, than if you just comment occasionally on what you like when he is doing something you enjoy.
Don't feel pressurised to fil some sort of magazine-based ideal - if you flip that logic over, you'll be trying to find a man like Brad Pitt, because no-one else can maker love as well as a gorgeous Hollywood hunk.
Stick to what you like, know, and enjoy - the rest all follows naturally.
Trust me - I'm a man!