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[red_dragon]

I have recently met a guy who says he cannot perform oral sex. When I asked why he said it brings him out in spots. He has tried several times and the same thing has happened and it has so traumatised him that just the thought of it fills him with fear.
How would you react to this?
Would it put you off him?

[Postdog]

I assume you mean him giving...

The spots could be a reaction to his face rubbing hair (and NO, I don't want to know anymore thank you!!)

Then again, he probably doesn't like it. Some blokes don't.

[Drisgirl]

It wouldnt put me off him -at least he has been honest with you.

Far worse if he had done it then came up with for an excuse -then I would worry -lol

[Ice.Maiden]

Mwhahahaha!!!!!!!! xx

[red_dragon]

Yeah I meant he performing it. He says he has tried several times with other women and his spotty reaction has put him off doing it!
I feel a bit disappointed as obviouslyl most women love it, as I do. I don't know whether to believe him or whether he just doesn't like doing it.
I know a woman can live without it but it is nice!

[mrs_overall]

You could always get him to wear a mask. I'd opt for a Geroge Clooney mask.
This would stop him getting spots AND your imagination could run riot.....

[mrs_overall]

You could always get him to wear a mask. I'd opt for a Geroge Clooney mask.
This would stop him getting spots AND your imagination could run riot.....

[Ice.Maiden]

It might not just be the spot thing. Some men don't like the natural smell of a woman - assuming that any smell IS a natural one, and nothing gross.

[Drisgirl]

You could also reciprocate if you feel he just cant be bothered -now that would be interesting-then you'll know for sure if he is telling the truth cos need I say more about how much men like it -lol

[jackthehat]

Tell him to buy some cling-film............
Apparently it doesn't act as a barrier to the sensations (you) but will give protection from the causes of the spots (him) !

[Postdog]

Where do you live red - one of my favourite pasttimes..... Maybe we can help each other out.

(oh, and I am one of those who aren't too fussed about it being done in return Drisgirl - I've even been known to fall asleep while it was being done (tho maybe that says more about her than me))

[red_dragon]

Oh these answers all have me smiling.


Mrs Overall, thats very funny
Drisgirl - very good idea, might try that one
Jackthehat - even better idea!
Postdog - now to me that sounds great but I wouldnt be thought of as a very nice girl if I took u up on that lol

[filthiestfis]

Me too red_dragon! I like giving but dont care about receiving! Let me help you out.

[CHOPSUEY]

Is it true (no offence) that black guys don't like giving oral sex as they see it as degrading?!

[Postdog]

On that last one, the guy I work next to is black, and he doesn't do it. Says he just won't.

[red_dragon]

Yeah Ive heard that too.

This guy isn't black tho so there is NO excuse lol

[red_dragon]

p.s. I love giving too so it's not like it would be a one-way street!

[CHOPSUEY]

Postdog - ask him why?

[Postdog]

I have. This came up one day one day in the summer. One of the girls was wearing shorts, asked us all what we thought of her legs, and I said the only way they could look better was if her thighs were round my neck. He looked at me like with disgust (at the idea, not what I said), and from the ensuing conversation just said it was something he'd never do - finds it demeaning.

[CHOPSUEY]

That's what I'd heard... He's missing out on some quality stuff - I've found a bit of muff diving can pay some real dividends!

[red_dragon]

So guys (and girls!) do you think he is using the "I was so traumatised by the instant spots" episode as a way of saying "it's not his bag" ?