unresponsive male. not another one

[mimi-moomoo]

i recently fell out with a horrible girl out of jealousy i suppose; she has recently started hanging around with my best friend and constantly flirting with him because she knows i fancy him. i rarely get to see him these days and now i'm worried because he just won't talk to me anymore, last month we were on the phone for at least 4 hours but now he doesn't even say hello! Help! have you ever had this and how did you deal with it? he is so close to me and i don't want to lose him to a girl that doesn't care about us as long as she makes me jealous :(

[China Doll]

mimi - Have you had a row or a disagreement with said male friend for him to stop talking to you for as long as you did? Or is it possible that he knows that you have feelings for him and does not return them so he does not wish to lead you on?

If he won't talk to you at all then I'm afraid he really isn't worth your time as much as it hurts. You may have built this lad up in your head to be the perfect guy for you but if someone you thought you were close to completely ignores you then they are not worth your attentions. Easy for me to say no doubt but hard for you to do.

Stop focusing on the girl and look at the way he's treating you. I'm sure you deserve better than that.