married women

[monkhousebob]

recently started a new job, having bein single for a while couldnt beleive my luck at the eye candy, but their all married. everyone apart from me seems to look at marriage as somthin to get out the way!! im sorted really as im single no ties so if somthin popped up ther wouldnt b a problem but these days everyones in such a rush!!! they are lovely women and their hubbies are very lucky but when will i get my turn haha!!

[puddicat]

my dearest bob its time!!

[bednobs]

in the nicest possible way, if you come across as desperate in real life as you do on here, you will never get a g/f married - women can smell desperate a mile off. Perhaps if you became independent and moved out f your parents huse you might have more to offer in a relationship?

[monkhousebob]

thats very harsh, i dont actually do anything desprate, i only ask advice here as its confidential......i would move out but cant afford it right now!

[~max~]

I'm with Bednobs on that, sorry. You do come accross as desperate on here, always asking about what to do to meet women, what's wrong with you, what's wrong with them, are you too quiet, are they too married...etc But you never seem to actually do anything about it.
You're obsessed!
As far as I can see from other previous questions of yours, you REALLY need to sort your head out before you even consider going out with someone. Women generally don't like men who are too introspective, too self-analysing, it comes accross as weak, and tbh, is a bit of a pain in the rear.. Stop looking, it'll happen. Sort your life out first!

[pinktwink1]

maybe he is desperate but no need to berate him. Afterall it takes all sorts and there is someone out there for everyone. I am sure bob will find the right person for him have you tried speed dating?? Good luck but don't try so hard . I am sure you will meet someone special and they too will be lucky

[Ice.Maiden]

If you get friendly with all these lovely married colleagues, then maybe you can wangle an invite to their parties and social evenings. They're bound to have some unattached friends and relatives.

[Ice.Maiden]

oh - was she married already then???? : )

[Ice.Maiden]

Sadly, maths was always my worst subject.

[logic]

women are are the most cussed creatures on the planet,
they will egg you on, let you get attatched to them, and then dump you without a second thought,
If you are a young person play their game, get to know them, screw em and dump em, have a good time,
as you get a bit older you will find some one you dont want to dump,
then that's the time to be serious,
That is only my opinion, and it's what I did for best part of 20 years,

[lil75]

Some of the answers are very harsh on here! Get a grip you lot...the man aint desperate, just wants to be loved by a woman...nowt wrong with that! He could be a woman beater, then you would have something to moan at!!!