my husband looks

[justawife]

my husband looks at other women, its only for a few seconds but its still looking. i have moved out of our bedroom and refuse to leave the house with him. should i take the kids and leave?

[zgma]

Good luck justawife, I'll be thinking about you. Sounds like your parents don't have your best interests in mind... do you have anyone you can count on? A good friend or other relatives that can give you and your kids a temporary place to stay, loan you some money, etc?

[Lindy Loo]

Just read your update and I'm thinking of you and the children. Sounds like your parents are not far behind your husband in attitude, no wonder you've been struggling!! It'll be hard I know but remember that as every day passes, you are one day nearer a better future. Good luck justawife and all the very best xxxx

[justawife]

hi. thatn you to everyone. i made him leave. it got kind of ugly but hes gone. he hasnt called to see the kids yet. they are mad at me. i got them in counciling thru school. i switched shifts si im at work while they r in school. its not bad yet, but its still new. the reality of it didnt hit yet. I'M FREE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[babe12]

My husband does the same. I got really mad at him and told him I would leave. I found a better way of getting his attention. I got my own life and went out without him, started dressing a little bit sexier and finally one day he noticed and everything has been better ever since. I don't let it bother me anymore because i'm the one the other men look at. That will get his attention.

[Lindy Loo]

justawife, just seen your lated post... I really hope that the future goes well for you and the children. You have already made positive changes. I know that there will be some rough times, BUT focus on the future and I'm sure you will succeed. Just take one day at a time. Take care and keep smiling :)

[justawife]

hi everyone.  got some bad news.  my  would be x-husband is very sick.  he has been diagnosed with stage 4 larygeal cancer.  he has had a complete larygetomy, dont know if thats spelled right,  he starts radiation and chemo next week.   i let him back into our lives.  im not in love with him but told him that we can still be a family.  my children need him.  i promised id take care of him.   everything sucks right now.  we are living off my salary plus he had disability insurance thru work.  its not much but we r somehow making it.  ill keep ya posted when i have time.