relationship over?

[wilbert]

My lady friend of some years says she does not know what she wants .She is always working and so am I but i relly look to the weekend for quality time,we have aaholiday booked in November but says she does not want to go, is this the end? I still owe money on yhe hol should we call it a day, I dont want to but I think she does but will not say so. Advice please

[FP]

Is she feeling stressed - has she been working too hard? Perhaps she needs a week or so on her own to sort her feelings out. Give her a little space. If she really doesn't want to go on the holiday then I think you will have to forfeit it. Hard, I know, but neither of you will enjoy it under the present circumstances. Why not write her a little note telling her how you feel and explaining that you will understand if she doesn't feel like going on the holiday. Let her know that you are there for her if she needs you. You will have to be patient and wait for her to sort her feelings out.

[georgit79]

I think it sounds like you need to sit down together and have a big chat. If she doesn't want to, then make her, as this isn't fair on you. You both have to make time to discuss your feelings towards each other, as it sounds like you haven't been doing much communicating recently. Only after this talk should you give her some space. You have to know where you stand first. Be strong! And let us know how it goes, we're thinking of you.