Update for Chinadog, Raysparx1, DocSpock and many more

[shaking]

Devasted to let you all know mum passed away this afternoon, it was peaceful and I was with her thank goodness although she didn't know I was there. It all happened so quickly so I would urge all those who are still lucky enough to have their parents to treasure them, I know I shall miss seeing mum every day and life will never be the same but it goes on regardless.

[Lakitu]

Sorry for your loss, shaking, much love to you and your family xxx

[bigmamma]

Hello shaking , I hope I'm not intruding on your thread but I want to pass on my condolencies to you . I have been through the death of both of my parents so can empathise .
You will be numb just now love and need all the support you can get . My heart goes out to you and you will be in my thoughts x

[fofospearjig]

Oh bless you shaking, my thoughts are with you. I lost my dear dad years ago and i cherish every day that i have my mum.

xxxxx

[Lil O'lady]

Poor you. Now that the worst is over, take time for yourself because you deserve and need it.

[shaking]

Thank you Lakitu, Bigmamma and Fofospearjig, your kind thoughts are very much appreciated. Thank you Bigmamma, you are always so kind and helpful to anyone on this site who is in dire straights, have always found your advice to others so sincere and helpful. I am distraught but there is so much to do will have to keep going despite everything. Thank you all so much.

[A.Guest]

shaking.

My thoughts are with you at this time.

Family members fill such a special place in our hearts! She has left, but remember she is watching down on you now.

After one of my loved ones passed on, they often found ways of showing up in my life, and still do. I am sure your mum will do the same in your life for many years to come.

It is easy to say, but equally true, that after the pain eases for you; the things you will remember are all the good times you shared together. When you think of the positive things in her life, dealing with her leaving may be a little easier.

She would want you to be happy, not sad or depressed. No one can take away from you the love and many happy memories of someone who has always been so close and so dear.

I will keep you in my prayers.

D

[shaking]

What lovely words, I do appreciate them and thank you for the prayers, know mum will be looking down on me, she loved me as much as I loved her.

[smudge]

Hello shaking - like bigmamma, I hope I'm not intruding.

Having lost both my Mum & Dad within 20 months of each other, then my sister 3 years ago, I too can empathise.

Losing any loved one is so very painful, let alone your parents, but rest assured you are not alone....we're all here should you need to 'talk'.

Take care, Smudge. -xx-

[smudge]

God bless your Mum. -xx-

[silverlace]

You wont get over it. but you will learn to live with it. Take care of yourself for your mumx

[weeal]

Sorry to hear that shaking, take care hon xx

[shaking]

You are certainly not intruding smudge, need all the help I can get at the moment, thank you for the kind thoughts.

[brenda]

shaking----I am so very sorry to hear of your loss.My sympathy and thoughts are with you today and in the near future. Try if you can to be strong for those around you, you will grieve for a long time , but things do get better.

Sincerely
Brenda.x

[ruthann58]

shaking i am so sorry to hear you have lost your mum she will have known you were there with her, there are lots of us on here for you when you need us to talk to it does help to talk and cry as much as you want , love ruth

[Velvetee]

So sorry to hear of your sad loss Shaking. Please accept my genuine condolences.

[mrs.chappie]

Hey buddy, so sorry to hear about your sad loss. I have lost both parents, and know how horrible the ache is.

May I ask how old your mum was? Hope you will tell us a little bit about her, if it is not too painful for you. xx

[raysparx1]

Hi shaking, I am so sorry to hear what has happened, that must have come as a great shock to you, I know what I am going to say will not take away the pain or the tears for you, I wish I could. all I can say is, one day the light will come back into your life, instead of it being dark the mist wil lift and you will be able to speak of your mum and smile at the little things that made your mum special, just think of the good life your mum had, she is now at peace, she will never hurt, and you have been lucky enough to have had a beautiful mum.

for you shaking., god bless xx


Life

Life can be cruel, hard to concieve

Heart in pain, you cannot relieve

Love to give, no one to take

Feeling inside, an incessant ache

Life it changes, as the seasons

Searching always, look for reasons

Life has good times, sometimes bad

Feeling happy, then feeling sad

Life is heaven, to all mankind

Glowing light, peace of mind

Life so short, many things to do

With someone, to see it through

Feeling lonely, in distant haze

On empty mountain, mind a daze

Life consumes, ones cherished heart

Once full of love, now so far apart

Life is seen, like a distant star

Looking at love, but from afar

As morning mist, eyes with tears

Life it offers, those endless fears

Life can deal , such cruel blows

Delivering next, no one knows

Destiny, future, what does it hold

Impending winds, winter cold

[Mamyalynne]

Ray says it al , I just add my deepest sympathy and send you a cuddle and a hug, shaking.

Take good care of yourself

Mamya xxx

[chicho,bird2]

My love goes
with you on your loss as i know too well what it is like as iv had a hell of 2 years but my memorys speak for them selves

god bless you shaking

as i wil think of you all day today

love and hugs to you and your family
monty xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx