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... what do you ladies think to your men accessing porn sites on the internet? I'm not talking anything hard-core here; nothing to do with bestiality, children or anything 'out-of-the-ordinary' - just regular sexy pictures of members of the opposite sex.
A threat to a relationship?
An enhancement to a relationship?
OK so long as it's out in the open?
A definite no-no or something completely normal?
A threat to a relationship?
An enhancement to a relationship?
OK so long as it's out in the open?
A definite no-no or something completely normal?
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Not at all - all comments & opinions welcome.
It's following a lunchtime discussion I have had with a lady, around my age, whose husband has been having problems "down below" - but she has discovered he has been looking at "sexy pictures" on his computer. When challenged, he says it is to try & get aroused "for her benefit" when he comes to bed, as he is having difficulties getting erections.
I find this story quite plausible - am I naive? I think the poor guy is too embarrassed to admit to a problem (he's 46), & is trying to get himself "in the mood". But this lady is taking it all terribly personally & is feeling unattractive & undesirable.
It's following a lunchtime discussion I have had with a lady, around my age, whose husband has been having problems "down below" - but she has discovered he has been looking at "sexy pictures" on his computer. When challenged, he says it is to try & get aroused "for her benefit" when he comes to bed, as he is having difficulties getting erections.
I find this story quite plausible - am I naive? I think the poor guy is too embarrassed to admit to a problem (he's 46), & is trying to get himself "in the mood". But this lady is taking it all terribly personally & is feeling unattractive & undesirable.
Its definatly an enhancement to me as all of my women have been ok with it,but not all women enjoy it so with some men its out in the open and others its hush hush,also like i said earlier,a woman could be into one thing and not other exotic acts,so in that case it would be "normal porn" out in the open "dirty depraved sex acts' watched after she's gone to bed.................well a mans gotta have some secrets!
lol at sqad and mangler.
Personally, unless I caught my man accessing really hard-core or illegal stuff, such as animals & children, I wouldn't really have a problem. But this lady is really upset - if she were in her 60's, 70's etc, I could understand it more, but she's around my age. And, according to her (cos she saw the pictures) - they really seem quite mild compared to what her hubby could be looking at.
Personally, unless I caught my man accessing really hard-core or illegal stuff, such as animals & children, I wouldn't really have a problem. But this lady is really upset - if she were in her 60's, 70's etc, I could understand it more, but she's around my age. And, according to her (cos she saw the pictures) - they really seem quite mild compared to what her hubby could be looking at.
To be honest, this stuff seems quite mild. Today's equivalent of a young lad nicking his mother's mail order catalogues to oogle at the lingerie section.
I think what her real worry is, is that it's not just pictures - that he is in someway in touch with the poster of the pictures - & perhaps has some internet-sex thing going on. She thought that, at the quick glance she got, that most of the pictures were of the same woman. I think she's more concerned with the possibility they may be also communicating with each other on a personal level, rather than just oogling her knickers & hairy mary.
I think what her real worry is, is that it's not just pictures - that he is in someway in touch with the poster of the pictures - & perhaps has some internet-sex thing going on. She thought that, at the quick glance she got, that most of the pictures were of the same woman. I think she's more concerned with the possibility they may be also communicating with each other on a personal level, rather than just oogling her knickers & hairy mary.
salla....well he could be communicating with her on a personal level, but what can she do about it.
Look.......you would be very unlikely to communicate with a porn star on a personal level, unless the man was a porn star himself LOL...I would not like to follow some of these men LOL..know what I mean?
Look.......you would be very unlikely to communicate with a porn star on a personal level, unless the man was a porn star himself LOL...I would not like to follow some of these men LOL..know what I mean?
'lo Salla.
Is it possible that the woman you were talking to feels kinda threatened by her hubby accessing porn? What i mean is she's not getting any from him, but he's quite happily viewing nubile (usually!) women instead?
I personally don't mind porn, infact watch a few with my hubby, and obviously I don't have a problem with it. Like you, I'd only have a problem if what he was d/loading or viewing was anything iffy.
Is it possible that the woman you were talking to feels kinda threatened by her hubby accessing porn? What i mean is she's not getting any from him, but he's quite happily viewing nubile (usually!) women instead?
I personally don't mind porn, infact watch a few with my hubby, and obviously I don't have a problem with it. Like you, I'd only have a problem if what he was d/loading or viewing was anything iffy.
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