... what do you ladies think to your men accessing porn sites on the internet? I'm not talking anything hard-core here; nothing to do with bestiality, children or anything 'out-of-the-ordinary' - just regular sexy pictures of members of the opposite sex.
A threat to a relationship? An enhancement to a relationship? OK so long as it's out in the open? A definite no-no or something completely normal?
no sqad - I don't think the 'lady' in question in the photos is a porn star as such - my colleague think she's just a normal woman who somehow her hubby has got talking to, and she has posted him pictures of herself in various poses & various states of undress.
OK salla....your friend then DOES have a problem. Some women will show their underwear in emails etc and that is to attract the man, which it invariably does.
Now, the man falls for the bait and has a purely sexual relationship with the woman which runs a natural course.
Now...question for the man "Would you leave your wife for a woman that shows her tits etc on the internet?
Answer......"not bloody likely"
So would I Boo - normal porn fair enough - it's only natural and can be mutually acceptable. But I get the feeling the pictures he is looking at have been sent to him personally & my colleague is worried he is having an "internet sexual affair". And, considering he can't get aroused, or keep aroused, when he is with his wife, she is finding this rather insulting and upsetting - and for that, I can understand her.
zzxxee.....I am a bit confused.....what is the difference between a scantily clad woman in the paper compared with a scantily clad woman on your PC monitor?
well squad i think if your man looks at it on the pc you always think maybe he will go that one step further chatlines ect well some men anyway my chappies totally trust worthy
my other half does not access porn, we are both pretty open, he is welcome to look through my email, txts, web pages ect and vice versa, he wont recoil in horror if he sees a boob on tv, but he has never been interested in porn
my colleague thought her chappie was totally trustworthy - and in truth (I don't know him) - he probably really genuinely is! But..doubts have been set in her mind now over all this weekend's revelations. Of, sometimes ignorance is so much more blissful.