What now ???

[nakitaxx]

i recently posted a question (Should i tell him?) on a lad i had been seeing and wasn't entirley sure if i should ask him if we could have possibly more ..... everyone said go for it so i did .....

i told him i liked him alot and that i wanted to know where i stood with him ... ie ... just a girl that he has sex with or more ???

his response was ... i dont want anything too serious or a full time girlfriend .... but i still want to see you .... can we have a proper chat the next time we meet up ?

The thing is im really falling for this guy .... for the last 6 weeks everythings been great he's said he really likes me and its not all based on sex ..... i dont want to just let him go but i dont just want to be his buddy ....

Should i keep seeing him and hope he comes round to my way of thinking and possibly end up getting hurt ......... or ...... just jump ship now and move on before i fall further ????

i know its my decision but just need some advice ....

[mccfluff]

i think wait till you see him and have this chat, you'll hopefully be a bit clearer about exactly what he wants and be able to make a decision.

personally if he doesn't want anything serious then i'd knock it on the head if you can't handle casual

[sqad617]

You enjoy seeing him and enjoy the sex you have with him and he reciprocates.

What is the immediate problem?

EVERYONE has been hurt in a sexual relationship at some time and it is a part of "growing up" or "character building"

Carry on and don't look to deeply into yur relationship.

[Ermieox]

Speaking from experience, see how he reacts to the conversation face to face. It could be inexperience making him shy away from moving the relationship on, or he could just be thoroughly enjoying having no-strings sex when he wants it (he is a bloke after all!)
If you can't handle a casual relationship then move on girl. There are plenty more fish in the see and the odd one or two of them are actually worth spending time with!
Good Luck!

[nakitaxx]

Thanks for all your advice ..... i'm sure an update will be on here soon lol x