Got text last night saying

[angel21]

'u r foolish girl'

from my dad. He has obviously found out that I have been round exes. Don't know how much he knows about how long I been there or how he found out.

I agree with him but wish he didn't have to find out. Can do without people telling me I'm foolish - I already know that! and if ex and dad didn't live quite so close together he would probs never have found out anyway.

Mum phoned house phone last night (my shared house) and spoke to landlady and was asking lots of questions apparantly and said she was worried as she hadn't heard from me (didn't reply to her text she sent the day before - 1 day) Mothers!

Stress is no good for you

[sqad617]

You Dad has a right to his opinion of his daughter.

[Infomaniac]

Perhaps mum wouldn't get so stressed if she was sure you were O.K. by you responding to her messages.

[redcrx]

parent never stop being concerned for their children. They are obviously worried about you.

Look at it in a nice way, there are lots of parents in the world that couldnt give a toss what their children do.

[angel21]

I know redcrx - its nice in a way but very irritating in another!

[sqad617]

redcrx...LOL and I am one of them.

[yogi.bear]

Morning angel xx

Hope you're well.

You're old enough to do what you please, are'nt you, sweetheart?.....a conversation with your parents will clear the air...try it .....may make you feel better too.!

Good luck and have a lovely day......sun's out!!!

:0)

yogi x

[angel21]

ex gotta have operation to have cyst removed from his ball, poor thing. Don't know how long the recovery period is for that but I might have to do things for him and it means no sex

also delays me leaving

[angel21]

Morning Yogi xx

Hope you had a good day in Brighton the other day.

Yes lovely weather at last, supposed to be hottest weekend so far this year I heard on the forecast and Monday raining and thunder.

Have you got 3 days off?

[redcrx]

if you want to leave then just leave, he can cope.

But do you really want to leave?

[4getmenot]

Your mother was worried about you, my mum would be if I didnt reply to a text and if she emails me and I dont reply she will txt me. Your dad is just concrened too and from what you';ve said your ex is like he should be

[4getmenot]

why does it stop you leaving? Cyst or no cyst he is your ex. He's using this to use you

[yogi.bear]

Sorry angel.........what's that gotta do with contacting your parents to let them know you're ok?.......us parents do worry you know for their children, no matter what age you are!!

and hope your b/f sorts out his ball problem!! and you having no sex too!!!..................ffs!
x

:0)

[4getmenot]

its her ex she shouldnt be having sex with him!

[angel21]

I've been there a month and I'm not sure what he thinks I am to him or sure what I am to him.

He says to people I am his part time girlfriend. That will do I suppose.

Do I want to leave - Yes

Is the time right - No

Will it ever be the right time - perhaps not but I want to try and leave on a good note and he has been a bit mean to me lately - always moans about the cup of tea I make him isn't good enough and says I don't do any housework - when we were together I always did lots of housework and he still said I needed to do some proper cleaning!!! ****** me off.

I'm waiting for the right time to leave and preferably on a good note and after some good sex so he remembers me well

[4getmenot]

That will do. Stop letting yourself be used like a doormat girl. Get some backbone!! Why leave on a good note what has this man done for you? why do you want him to remember you? This man would remember me but not what he;d want to remember

[redcrx]

angel, youre just setting yourself up for heartache and being a doormat.

surely you think more of yourself than that dont you?

why on earth would you put up with his attitude, part time girlfriend? wtf is that about, get some self respect!

No wonder your parents are worried and asking questions, what would you say to a friend or relative who was subjected to the same cr@p that youre getting from this guy?

[angel21]

Ooo I'm back.

Don't know 4get - lost me marbles at the mo clearly.

Cheers hun xxx

[DEN53]

Hiya angel

I hope your Mum and Dad have not got access to your recent posts here on AB - then they would really be worried !!!!!