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Guy at work wont stop!
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I have a little problem at work which is escalating into a big one.
I worked with a guy 2 -3 years ago until he moved to another area. Once he moved he started emailing me in a friendly manner which then turned into flirting one. It was flattering but I wasn't interested because he is married with 3 kids and I'm not attracted to him. I stupidly played on with the flirting thing until I went on long-term sick the year before last. Luckily I never gave him any of my numbers so he couldn't contact me.
During the time I was sick I met my now current bf. When I went back to work last February everything was fine and I never received any contact with the other guy for several months. I then started getting emails from him just before Xmas. I've told him that I'm with someone and that I'm not into having affairs but he doesn't seem to get the message. We were friends before and I just want to carry on being friends.
Apart from not answering he emails what can I do? I see him quite often in the canteen in the mornnings when I get my coffee.
I worked with a guy 2 -3 years ago until he moved to another area. Once he moved he started emailing me in a friendly manner which then turned into flirting one. It was flattering but I wasn't interested because he is married with 3 kids and I'm not attracted to him. I stupidly played on with the flirting thing until I went on long-term sick the year before last. Luckily I never gave him any of my numbers so he couldn't contact me.
During the time I was sick I met my now current bf. When I went back to work last February everything was fine and I never received any contact with the other guy for several months. I then started getting emails from him just before Xmas. I've told him that I'm with someone and that I'm not into having affairs but he doesn't seem to get the message. We were friends before and I just want to carry on being friends.
Apart from not answering he emails what can I do? I see him quite often in the canteen in the mornnings when I get my coffee.
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.of course he is`nt getting the message if you have been flirting with him ,the poor guy is probably hanging waiting to hear from you,stop all the flirting and explain to him you would just like to be friends and nothing more and every time he makes innuendos tell him to keep it simple ,i think you`ve used this man feelings to boost your own ego.
what i think you should do is apologize for leading him on.
what i think you should do is apologize for leading him on.
People flirt all the time - half the time it is meaningless - don't feel bad and certainly don't apologise as khoey suggests - khoey are you male?
The guy is married with children so how do you know he isn't just enjoying an innocent bit of flirting? Plenty of that goes on on this site, but it doesn't mean anything is going to come of it does it? Or has he made it clear that he is wanting more?
The guy is married with children so how do you know he isn't just enjoying an innocent bit of flirting? Plenty of that goes on on this site, but it doesn't mean anything is going to come of it does it? Or has he made it clear that he is wanting more?
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