Is it possible?

[Xenon101]

Is it possible for someone to love someone soooo much more than they love u back!? I'm in my 30's and I've had loads of relationships from 1 night to 6 years. I've been with a girl for 7 months and she ended it on a lack of buzz! We bumped into an ex boyfriend of hers a few weeks ago and she admitted it made her emotions all in the air. She tells me I'm one of the nicest guys she's ever met but no buzz. I love this girl so much. I know she's the one for me, but she can't do it! I can't believe a girl will give up a guy who she admits she likes, and is doting on her, reliable and totally devoted! ...and I'm not ugly. She and others say I'm good looking. How do I convince her she's making a mistake!???????????

[sara3]

you can't. sometimes we get obsessed by people. you're obsessed with her, she's obsessed with her ex.

she might get back with the ex, then realise she made a mistake.. but you can't just sit and wait.

sorry :o/

[Xenon101]

Cheers Sara. I know I can't sit and wait, but I've never felt pain like this and not sure what to do. She'll never get back with her ex but she just admitted it changed something within her and she then realised that she didn't fancy me enough to carry on.

[jno]

yes, very possible, it happens a lot. She may be doing the very same thing herself, after all.

[sara3]

Xenon, you deserve someone who is just as obsessed with you. you wouldn't want to think she'd "settled" for you, that would be awful.