interesting question people..

[laura_x]

how can i convince my boyfriend (soon to be fiance) that having a 3 sum with another girl is a good idea? any comments would be much appreciated! x

[snags]

He needs convincing?

[wiggal]

I would say you dont! If he isnt interested to start with pushing him into it may only cause problems between you!

[redcrx]

do you really want "any comments"?

[redman41]

If all parties agree then what is the problem ? What you all do as consenting adults is up to you. Have fun !! lol

[joggerjayne]

OMG ... he needs convincing ?

(as snags says)

[craft1948]

what if he thought the other girl was better than you?

[ummmm]

lol...

[redman41]

Me and Squad are available if you need re-inforcements. ;-)

[society]

Maybe your boyfriend (soon to be fiance) doesn't want to share you with anyone else. Or maybe he's scared you might fancy the other girl more than him. :-)

[snags]

''(soon to be fiance)''

Maybe not!

[ummmm]

Me and other half just had a discussion about this...it lasted from my 'lol' comment until this comment.

[Teleph0ne]

Speaking from experience, the fatasy to some people is far better than the reality. I am sure that if you find the right girl and not just someone that thinks its cool to say your bi then you will have a fantastic time. Your boyfriend however may feel intimidated and inadequate because you will be satisfied in ways that he can never achieve. Also on the flip side you may think that your boyfriend is having more fun with your mate than you and this can cause problems. If you arnt both totally up for it and aware of the consequences then it is a recipe for disaster. We however had the time of our lives ;-)

[craft1948]

spot the odd one out...............REDMAN.............SQAD....
........BOY

[laura_x]

haha if he thought the other girl was better to be honest i wouldnt care, he wouldnt just run off with her because she's better in bed.. and to wiggal, i do see your point but the thing is he wants to deep down but he doesn't want me to be jealous.. but he just needs to understand that it was my idea in the first place and if i wasn't confident you know.. i wouldnt have put it forward? x

just so everyone knows.. i hardly ever come on here so if you want to get in contact for some advice or what ever.. http://www.facebook.c...iltcliffe?ref=profile thats my facebook (Y) x

[snags]

Don't knock it Ginge... think how much more sleep you'd get ;-p

[redman41]

Yes me and Squad will definitely be up for it. How many will your bed hold ? lol

[laura_x]

haha your crazyy redman41! :L x

[joggerjayne]

To make sure you don't get left out, make sure the other girl can do this ...

http://ribbu.com/wp-c...ith-a-long-tongue.jpg

[Bbbananas]

No - I think you're the crazy one for advertising yourself on here...

[redman41]

LOL !
Can craft and Bobbisox come along.......they can give some moral support ! lol