oh dear...

[! Roxy !]

hey! ok im nearly 16..(so 15) and im feeling stupid and maybe paranoid?! Ive never 'been with anyone' and im freaking out that when i go with sum1 theyll reject me as some kind of freak because of the way i kiss! the thing is, i get quite afew male admirers, but they all think that im some kind of perfect person?! when im freaking out over something, i feel, everybody has done before me, theres some weirdos in my year who have lost their virginity b4 me, which makes me feel like an idiot! im thinking of overcoming this stupid thing and going with someone i like when i go out on friday...does anyone have ANY tips that would help me? jeez this is long...

[landie]

Find a nice respectable boyfriend round about your own age and practice your snogging together.

[wonky]

Hello, My brother inlaw has only just lost his virginity and he is 25 also my husband lost his virginity with me when he was 18 so there is no rush!!

I strongly advise you wait until you have found someone that you have strong feelings for, that way you can get to know each other and it will be a lot more relaxing!!

 

The worst thing that can happen if you are bad at kissing (which i doubt is true its prob just nerves) is the man in question (if hes worth kissing) will say how he likes to be kissed or 'lead' you while kissing!!

Dont panic and enjoy being a teenager x x

[! Roxy !]

hahaha...but...if i find someone i like and i screw up...OBVIOUSLY it would mean the end of the world. i have my own plan...

feel free to add more to the 'dilemma'...

[! Roxy !]

see that was better advice, thank you. teenage years arent all their cracked up to be now tho...alot more stress involved ill have thee know...

[wonky]

i know they aren't all that great thats why you should make the best of it!!

 

If you meet someone that is good enough to be with you they wont do a runner becuase you havent had sex or kissed anyone!!!! x x

[blueeyedlass]

hi there ,well its normal to feel abit nervous but to be honest the minute that you start i think that you stop worrying about it and you just start to enjoy it.and if its any help to you its not just the first time this happens i remember after being with my boyf for 4 years the thought of kissing someone else after we broke up was a bit weird because i was so used to my boyfriend but im happy to tell you that i was worrying for nothing.just relax.

[landie]

Clean fresh breath. No onions or garlic beforehand.